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Fatties at a Magic the Gathering Meetup

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I'm a petty beefy guy. Have been for most of my adult life. I'm changing my eating and hitting the gym again to get healthy, but I don't think I'll ever be super thin again.

There seem to be a decent amount of men who find plus size women sexy, which I think is fantastic. But as a man, I can't say that my experience has been proportional or at all similar. Outside of fetish communities, I've not encountered a woman who was sincerely attracted to someone with my body type, and thats... hard.

I don't want to be a fetish. I don't want to be in a feeder-type relationship. I want to be healthy, but I also accept that healthiness for me might still be a hefty body type. The BHM communities I've found on reddit are very sexually oriented. I'm not here to kink shame anyone, but that's just not me.

I'm a man with a deep capacity for love and connection. I'm very connected to my feelings and really would like to find a meaningful relationship based on mutual interest, attraction, and compatible personalities.

I just don't know where to find women who would be interested in dating a guy like me. The apps are out. So are the popular dating sites. I just feel like modern dating isn't made for the plus sized man.

Does anyone have some good advice for me? I'm a 46 year old man, who at this point, is kind of at a loss.

!foidmoment :#handshake: !moidmoment

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You can hear the table creaking...
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Me and my partner are both plus size. We were having s*x doggy position and he slipped out and immediately try to go back in but went into my butt instead.

This is the second time within a month that the same incident has happened. First time I cried so much because it hurt and he comforted me. This time it hurt still as much but I didn't cry because I'm more mad than sad.

I'm mad because I've always told him that I never want to do anal it's not something for me and he brought up doing anal for the longest time until I told him I'd have to break up if this was a deal breaker because it's never happening and he let it go.

Now that this has happened twice so close together I feel as if it's been done on purpose. Only because we've always done doggy and when he slips he repositions himself gently back in he never just tries to immediately go back in.

He apologized and said "I'm sorry. It's my fault I've gained weight and my belly is more round so I couldn't see and didn't realize"

So am I to believe his belly blocked him and he was just into it that's why he didn't position himself gently back or was this done on purpose? He didn't stay in long only because I let out a scream and told him to get off. It just feels so close together to have the same thing happen twice when in our 2 year relationship this has never happened before.

JUST WANTED TO ADD: Thank you I just felt like I was overthinking this. Once I brushed it off as accidental but twice within a month is too much. He is currently snoring while I'm here with a bit of soreness, nothing compared to the first time it happened but still. This happening twice now… I don't want to think he did it on purpose but this is looking like it was. I'm not sure how to proceed if we didn't have a baby together I'd say it's over. But me being a sahm me leaving over this it just can't happen overnight.

I think I'll just refrain from s*x with him for a while. He's not an aggressive or mean person but this incident just has me needing to take a step back from being intimate.

!foidmoment

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Avarage american

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Lizzo?, more like Judas to r/MaintenancePhase :marseybackstab:

					
					
					
	

				
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r/gamingcirclejerk gets :soymad: at people not liking fat fanart :marseypainter:

					
					

Lots of uses of the work "fatphobia" in the comments :marseyxd:

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For context, Alexandera Houchin is a niche lolcow and currently the flavor of the year in the obnoxiously socially conscious world of alt cycling. She's a fat, nativeish girl that decided to start riding ultra endurance MTB races on a single speed but also managed to finish the Tour Divide (continental divide mtb/gravel bike race from Banff to the Mexican border) without losing any weight. :marseyhmmm: Since then she's been on a victory lap trying to hoover up whatever sponsorships she can get before her knees explode, sort of like a BIPOC !bikechads version of Ragen Chastain

Also Esker is a company that makes bikes for dumbfricks who want a Surly but wish it was more expensive.

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'Housing crisis means I can't use my own bathroom'
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280 pound r/antidiet users knees hurt for no explainable reason :marseythonk:

					
					
					
	

				
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Please help me pour some bleach on my eyes

					
					

I hate foids so much. Unreal

https://old.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/1inev4y/period_underwear/

:#vomit:

https://old.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/1in07nr/what_is_your_opinion_on_lume/

:laugh:

https://old.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/1in69ga/did_you_really_say_that_out_loud/

https://old.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/1inbgrx/i_feel_very_undesired/

Fat fat fatttttie!!!!!

https://old.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/1icgu4p/i_am_not_the_right_kind_of_plus_size_nor_a_model/

Gggguh

https://old.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/1i084er/just_a_few_photos_from_this_magical_day/

COPE

https://old.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/1id7u8f/stretch_marks/

:#marseysuicide: get your own whales now

Lol. The few surviving based Redditors post some memes. Fatties lose their shit

https://old.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/16l8lig/why_is_fatphobia_so_virulent_on_reddit_cant_enjoy/

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Bongland bans a model for being too thin

					
					

In its ruling, the ASA acknowledged the model's face "did not appear to be gaunt and her arms, while slim, did not display any protruding bones".

But it said: "Because the pose, camera angle and styling in the ad investigated strongly emphasised the slimness of the model's legs, we considered that the ad gave the impression that the model was unhealthily thin."

https://i.rdrama.net/images/1739352395mR9y7mAFBGbU6w.webp

You can be thin and unhealthy, and fat and healthy. Being underweight is as dangerous as being overweight.

Of course it's a foid making this comment

!thin !britbongs

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https://9gag.com/gag/ayNqz2q#comment

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https://i.rdrama.net/images/1739345626bxM7_E7K8X-LSg.webp

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:marseychtorrr2: who works at a bakery gets mad at the comments people make about their 700+ calorie abominations

					
					

>I have a kid in Girl Scouts and people will talk like that in front of the Scouts selling cookies. It's so frustrating because I have tried to raise my kids as body neutral as possible but that shit is pervasive.

Tell the kid to learn how to mind their own business like an adult lmao

>Maybe a sign? "Please stop bumming out the baked goods by calling them Bad."

>Years ago used to have a small bowl of candy & mints at my office desk. The performative diet culture is REAL. Just come over and say hi, then grab a piece of candy, there's an actual sign that says "help yourself."

Sorry, but food doesn't and will never have feelings, I should be free to shittalk it as I please

>I worked at a barista at a trendy (college students and rich white moms) cafe and yeah it's pretty bad. I would just deadpan and not respond to it or play dumb and say "why would you feel bad about eating a croissant"

Because it's like 600 empty calories you don't need

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:hesgayyouknow:

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/r/PlusSize frontpage is literally just pictures of chairs the fatsos can't fit in.
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Fatties get filtered by chairs :fatchair: :marseychonkerfoid:

					
					
					
	

				
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Yeezy joins /r/fatpeoplehate :marseybdtf:

https://i.rdrama.net/images/1738977468-Wszi9tVupDJ7g.webp

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A friendly reminder :marseytruthnuke: - /r/PlusSize

					
					

https://i.redd.it/pj4sgu1f1che1.jpeg finally we FatCHADS of the penile gender are getting some representation! !foidmoment

https://media1.tenor.com/m/MJGizIxLAWUAAAAd/gigachad-fat.gif

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Found out my date was a feeder. :marseydarkxd: :marseychonkmaxx: :gigachad4:

					
					

I 24(f) was speaking to a man for about over a week now, I've been really insecure my whole life and avoided men entirely. Only just these past few months have I started to go on dating apps and speak to guys, I've not really found anyone I've been interested in until last week. I really got along with this guy, common interests and thought I was beautiful etc. In the beginning of the convo I was very clear that I'm plus size and if he's not into that that's completely fine, and he was bigger himself and emphasised that he was completely fine with my size and attracted to me. I also said that I'm not into being fetishised, he didn't drop any hints that he was into that.

We had a date tomorrow, to get coffee together. And today, after I've done my nails and toes, took a full body shower, plucked my eyebrows, used my hair and skincare that I reserve for special occasions and I was even going to bake him some cookies to try that we spoke about. He then sent me a long message about how he's into feederism and that he understands it's not for everyone and he likes me for me not his kink etc. I feel so humiliated. I feel gross and I feel like all security and confidence I had has just been destroyed. I really thought I found someone that liked me for ME myself, not because I'm fat. I sent him a voice note saying that I was clear I'm not into his fetish, and he had the opportunity to tell me then no? But instead he's told me just before our date.

I really feel like all my trust in potential partners has completely gone. I'm a really sceptical person usually, and it took so much time for him to break down my walls all to end up doing that. I hate feeders, and I hate my body for attracting them too.

!foidmoment !goyslopenjoyers !ranchers

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"Weight has nothing to do with a swollen arm" :marseyhealthy:

					
					

Poor doctor...

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:lol:

https://i.rdrama.net/images/1738843375cSlvK7BW9pMt9g.webp

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:marseylaptopsad2:"I can't lose weight on 800-1000 calories a day" :marseychonkernoticeme: :fatguy:

					
					

Lmao, she must just either guess-timate her calories or not include drinks lol

Everyne in the thread talks about how they are totally the 0.01% of the population that doesn't follow thermodynamics

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"Sometimes we eat, sometimes we don't" - :marseychonkerfoid:

https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=844622799607365

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