Even reddit isn't buying her shit lmao. If you click on my of these links you'll see a ton of people roasting her. Some choice samples:
TL;DR I don’t know if I, as a fat woman, want to go on a second date with this guy because he had a picture of a skinny cartoon girl on his shirt.
So I met this (26m) guy on tinder, we’ve been talking for around a week now, he’s decently nice and okay to talk to.
After a few days in, I asked him if he wanted to go to an antique mall with me sometime. I figured it would be a good no-pressure, free first date. The antiques and old junk in the store would keep things from being awkward, and they’d be good conversation pieces. He said yes. I did let him know that I am fat (I preface it in my tinder bio as well) 5’1 and 285 lbs, and he said he didn’t mind.
Anyways, we finally went the aforementioned antique mall yesterday. I wasn’t particularly fancied up, I wore an everyday cardigan with black pants and a white shirt, did my makeup and hair. But I was a bit uncomfortable with his choice in shirt when I first saw him get out of his car.
It was a tie dye/stone washed t shirt with a picture of a skinny cartoon character (Poison Ivy) on it. It was pretty front and center. I was a bit uncomfortable but I didn’t say anything.
I tried not to let it spoil the date, I really wanted some company. So we spent 2 and a half hours walking around the antique mall, laughing and having fun. We both had a good time. I wish I would’ve grabbed his arm or held his hand or something but A) I feel like we’d get looked at weird because of the cartoon character on his shirt and B) I didn’t want to make him uncomfortable if he wasn’t attracted to me.
After the date he told me he had a really good time and invited me to dinner this Sunday. I tentatively said yes but I don’t know if I can look past the shirt. What if he’s really only attracted to the kind of girls that were on the shirt? What if he’s only hanging out with me because he feels like he can’t get anyone better?
Am I being crazy or is this something I should be worried about?
I'm glad to see she's schizomaxxing in addition to foodmaxxing.
Bitter rambling abt how nobody loves her cuz she fat
I could call you my sweet handsome boy every day, but you don’t want me because I’m fat.
I could give you lots of gentle kisses across your forehead and softly stroke your hair, but you don’t want me because I’m fat.
You could move into a comfortable, clean, nicely decorated space, but you don’t want me because I’m fat.
You could have a girlfriend that makes the best chocolate chip cookies that stay soft for days (if they last that long) but you don’t want me because I’m fat.
You could have a girl who would eventually give you children, but you don’t want me because I’m fat.
You could have a girl who is completely devoted to you and only you, who is obsessed with you, but you don’t want me because I’m fat.
You could have a girl who would be willing to move across the country to be with you, but you don’t want me because I’m fat.
You could have a girl who’s independent, who works nonstop, who is nurturing and funny, but you don’t want me because I’m fat.
You could have a girl with an interesting personality and music tastes, but you don’t want me because I’m fat.
Men only value physical perfection in women and they wonder why they keep getting the short end of the stick. I could give you everything, but you won’t date me because I’m fat.
The "gentle kisses across your forehead and softly stroke your hair" made me physically shudder with revulsion.
I'm dying alone and I'M NOT UPSET
i’ve honestly given up on finding a guy.
it’s not like im super particular or anything. someone on my last post said i must be looking for ryan gosling, but like, i’m honestly not. i mean, i’ve got a thing for white guys with long hair. they could be balding as long as it’s long, i don’t really care.
it’s just difficult when you’re obese. and like, i don’t really have any desire or want to change it. i don’t see a need to change it. i get along just fine with my weight as it is. i still have a full time job. i still have a good car, good license. i keep my place almost spotless, cute, nicely decorated. i keep up with laundry (mostly). i can keep up with my two cats. plus i can basically eat whatever i want.
men are attracted towhatever they’re attracted to and honestly, if i have to change how i look for them to be attracted to me, then i don’t really want to be with them.
i’ve got my cats, as cliche as it sounds. i’ve got my friends i can hang out with. i have my romance novels i can read. i’m self sufficient. i don’t need or want a man anymore.
it’s funny because most men can’t clean up after themselves anyway. men also don’t provide anymore. men don’t really have anything to bring to the table. i’m funnier than they are, i listen to better music than they do, i’m more interesting than they are. i do all my own stunts.
so i’ve honestly given up. so i won’t have kids with any guys, so what. so i won’t get married, so what. i can write about it. it’s really not a big deal. fat women are bottom tier when it comes to dating. i don’t really care if i end up alone anyway.
In case you couldn't tell from the previous ramble, she is NOT UPSET about dying alone
Being morbidly obese makes you a better person, CHUD
The only part of being overweight that effects your personality is that being overweight actually DEVELOPS the personality. Most fat people have way more interesting hobbies and are funnier and more interesting than skinny people (who like doing shit like drinking and going to clubs, MAYBE hiking if they really want to be deemed as “too good” for the fatties)
Frick you for suggesting that being overweight negatively effects your personality. i’ve met countless people like you who say shit like “oh being overweight means they have an unattractive personality because they’re a bunch of lazy disgusting slobs!” meanwhile their own house and car are in absolute fricking shambles on the inside and everything they own is fricking trashed and disgusting, and they can’t take care of simple things like animals because they simply don’t fricking want to.
Go frick yourself.
I fricking love that she can't imagine anyone actually enjoying hiking so they must be doing it solely to dab on fat people lmaoooo
She's tried EVERYTHING guys, she's just MEANT to be fat
I’ve tried putting in effort hundreds of times. Every fat person has. I’ve done cico. I’ve done keto. I’ve done intermittent fasting. I’ve tried everything. I’m morbidly obese at 5’1 and 285.
I’ve already come to the conclusion that I’m dying alone. It’s sad and disappointing but there’s nothing i can do anymore. Men are entitled to their physical preferences and I was meant to be alone.
It's disappointing but she's also NOT UPSET ABOUT IT
anyone else notice that white men aren’t interested in white women anymore?
recently (in the past 4-5 years) i’ve noticed that white men aren’t as interested in white women anymore. i see it in relationship advice subreddits. i see it on tiktok. i see it in real life. white guys everywhere seem to only be getting in relationships with african american women, asian women, latinx women, racially ambiguous women. but never white women.
i have a theory. i believe that more white women are becoming overweight, this being why white men aren’t dating within their race anymore. white men hate overweight women more than anything.
has anyone else noticed this trend? anyone else have a theory?
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Western guilt culture resulting in comodified victimisation, a lack of accountability and absolute entitlement. These people are the dregs.
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you forgot goyslop
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