Obese people of Reddit, what is something non-obese people don't understand, or can't understand?

"I have always mentally been obese"

"worrying if furniture would support you"

"Fat cells don't disappear due to dieting, they just shrink. They plump straight backup again as soon as they can"

"How people treat you. With active disdain. People glare at you, they scoff at you, they make faces of disgust when seeing you. Random-butt people feel free to honk at you and yell shit from their car, when you walk alongside the road. The hatred is honestly intense."

"It put me off going to the gym, because there would always be one person who laughed at me or mocked me. I get it, I'm very fat, but I was trying to improve my health and fitness (which people love to tell fat about, faux concern included) and still got made fun of."

"I mean, have you tried just not eating? /s

It's the same with mental health. People that have not experienced it are always quick to give their “advice”"

"How hard it is to lose weight. Especially when you struggle with depression too.

I need to lose 50kg badly."