I have a friend.. we'll call her B. She's really thin and gorgeous ofc. When we're in a group and we eat, for some reason she feels the need to say she's so fat after, while clutching her (non existent) stomach. Another one of her favorites is saying she's 9 months pregnant and holding her (again non existent) stomach like a pregnant woman would. Now me, I'm sitting there dying inside because… well duh, I'm sure you know why. I'm super non confrontational and shy so I'm not sure how to handle it. I end up just getting real quiet. Another friend of ours already called her out when B sent videos in our group chat saying she's so pregnant and clutching her stomach. The other friend was like shut up, B you're literally the standard. But ofc B still does it. Idk what to do
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It's kind of amazing that the idea that a pregnant woman isn't allowed to have any insecurity because she's not fat.
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This framework only applies to things that are not a choice.
Someones race, sexual orientation etc. It does not apply to being fat.
For some reason we're allowed to judge people for every other bad decision they make with one exception: being fat.
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