A lot of dating in NYC is so transactional
— Cooper (@enlightenedcoop) November 6, 2022
> guy takes you to a dimly lit bar with cool drinks
> guy sips on those drinks as he tells you about his “cool” job as the idea guy, everywhere he’s travelled
> guy pays and slips in the “we could go to my place”
It’s so boring
Bumping into someone at a bodega counts as a date:
If you aren't rich then she isn't impressed:
They’re not trying to impress me, they try to impress their own ego
Many such cases:
Some guy pretends you are beautiful for a few hours (you are actually mid and they are horny)
Homos stay winning under all circumstances:
guy tells you about how is grandfather killed a british soldier because he stole his "potatoes"
guy gets in to a street fight with a drunken Armenian after he laughs at both of you outside the irish bar
guy deletes grindr
Post 2 because I cbf making two posts:
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Yasss girl ditch that scrote:
How she talks about her hometown guy earlier in her timeline:
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Can't believe chuds are still rating women like this smh:
Humbly decline, she's a NY 4 maybe. We'll pass her over to the south.
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Fricking pathetic. The ONLY acceptable date should be the moid picking you up in a limousine, taking you to a five-star Michelin restaurant for Wagyu steak, and ending the evening by proposing with a 24 karat blood diamond.
Failing that, ruralfoids just need to ask whether he's on Medicaid or not.
(Also yankoid entitlement
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People who define long-term relationships in a cold, transactional manner make me sad
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There should be an eagle eye badge
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What do you mean by this?
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the nose ring is usually a red flag
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ahh but they are good for pump and dumps, no?
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if you like STDs
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oh ya I loved Queen of Katwe
it was even better when I realised it was based on a true story! Also I realised that I've watch the Last King of Scotland halfway through the movie I'm r-slurred 
The winking dude is from some Hongkong trans movie that I've not watched lol but speculated a bit about: https://rdrama.net/post/64343/marseychingchong-question-on-whether-a-gay
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oh yeah right
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i'm so surprised by how common this appears to be. given the ratio and density of people i thought NYC would've been a great city for dating + wifesearching/husbandmaxxing. but apparently it sucks for that?? why?:
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NYC is the easiest place in the world to have an absolutely incredible first date with a smart, charming, attractive person, and the hardest place in the world to make it to a fourth date with them:
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Women sort of make the rules of the game, men are just trying to impress you. Not impressed? Many men trying many strategies:
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They’re not trying to impress me, they try to impress their own ego:
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What does the woman get from this transaction?:
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Some guy pretends you are beautiful for a few hours (you are actually mid and they are horny):
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> guy takes you to St.Patricks Cathedral:
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Post 2 because I cbf making two posts:
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How she talks about her hometown guy earlier in her timeline::
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I can't speak for the entire Midwest but she's a grand rapids, mi 4. maybe a 5 depending on the side of town & amount of alcohol involved.:
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Humbly decline, she's a NY 4 maybe. We'll pass her over to the south.:
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