You've identified that you're a PickMe. Congrats, one of the first steps towards being a goddess is knowing that you are part of the equation of your cyclical misery. For those in the back, I said PART OF. You can't fully blame yourself, that's still practicing these feeble behaviors. Yes, we're here to take responsibility for our current mindset leading us to where we are right now. However, realize that you have been surrounded by men who exhibit microaggression towards women, you have been brainwashed by other PickMe's. But now you know the truth: You are worth SO much more than anyone ever said you were. YOU determine where you go from here. Being a woman, you have been through so much. Think about the men who try to control our bodies, who use us to fulfill their sick fantasies, the statistics on violence. The media celebrates this and fuels this grotesque reality that we are meant to be meek, feeble and to endure abuse.

1. Promise to yourself "never again". Never again will you be manipulated or abused. Never again will you quietly endure your discomfort.

2. Realize that AMALT (All Men Are Like That). Thinking "Not all men" is DETRIMENTAL to your safety. "Not all men are male feminists". Fine. But if I gave you a pack of gummy bears and told you one was poisoned, wouldn't you treat each of them as potentially lethal? Let them prove to you that they are "not like the other men". Do not prove to HIM that you are "not like the other girls". One of men's biggest worry is to get "divorce r*ped" but are they ever worried about ACTUAL R*PE? NO. So don't give them the benefit of the doubt, make them show you through ACTIONS. A HVM will have no problem with this. A scrote will act offended and immature and just not worth your time, this is because he doesn't respect you. Which brings me to...

3. Define your standards and warning flags. You need to write this down. 5 is a good number to start with Comment this below if you must, I want you to be CRYSTAL clear on what you will NEVER tolerate ever again and what you will NEVER tolerate ever. For example, I will never be with a man who cheats on me. I will consider repeated arguments a huge warning flag. If I need to repeat myself more than twice about something that is clearly important to me... boy BYE. (If you choose to comment, it also helps other women identify red flags and help them define their standards as well.

4. BLOCK THAT SCROTE/ EX/ STALKER. Stop being nice to him. He sucks and has zero value to you. You know he just wants to sleep with you. Block him now. You will feel so cleansed. If they try to reach out again, say that you have been really busy and focusing on yourself. They may call you a b-word for "leading them on". You can tell them to go to heck. You don't owe no one an explanation.

5. Read the sidebar. Take your time with it, it's a lot to take in. But it will equip you in the long run and there's plenty of good stuff.

6. Take care of yourself, starting today, starting now. Say no to something you don't want to do. Don't pick him up, don't make him a sandwich if he doesn't deserve it. Begin breaking out of your PickMe routine. Don't adapt to his needs now because it will be "worth it in the end". Honey, it's not worth it. You deserve to be happy NOW. Another way you can practice this is to take care of your hygiene and your environment. Be proud of your appearance and your surroundings because you did it for YOUR well-being. Most PickMeishas are externally motivated, they just HAVE to get that "good job" sticker. Nothing wrong with being externally motivated, but pining for a man's approval is just pathetic. Do it to make FDS proud, do it for YOU. (this will take time, I'll make another post on it someday but try your best! We're rooting for you!)

7. Realize that there are high-level women out there who will support you. Maybe even on here. We're all just trying to look out for each other, but no one can help anyone that doesn't WANT to realize their own self-destructive behavior. So if you think your situation "isn't so bad". Sorry, this wasn't the post for you.

I will try to update with more suggestions as I get them.

@Neon_Needles @TED_SIMP

the yahoo comments section of cpurse is filled with unsupportive incel chuds who just cant even

It is a term used by Dr Jilly Kay, an expert in feminist media and cultural studies at Loughborough University, in a paper published earlier this year. Kay has been researching a reactionary turn among young women, and how a backlash against mainstream feminism has created new spaces online. In the femosphere, instead of "incels" – male involuntary celibates – there are "femcels", and instead of pickup artists there are female dating strategists and so-called "dark feminine" influencers who encourage women to find men to support them financially.

@T3D_SIMP you should start a tiktok teaching femcels how to captivate and control moids on obscure message boards. There's gold in them thar simps.

Now that we are freee, let's all admit that everyone loves titties. Titties are great. Hers are great. God bless titties.

BREAKING:

2 judges on the Supreme Court of Iran, have just been shot and killed.

Ali Razini & Mohammad Moghiseh were killed in front of the Supreme Court building in Tehran by a guard who had enough of the Islamist dictatorship

Both judges were hardliners, known as “hangmen” pic.twitter.com/b5LAHxmF2N

— Visegrád 24 (@visegrad24) January 18, 2025

The assassin increased the moid suicide rate too

!moidmoment was he one of the few good scroteoids?

This is my (19M) first semester of college. I have my own bedroom but share a bathroom with another suitemate (M). He seems very introverted as he has never talked to me even when I try to start a conversation. I say this because I have no idea if I should bring up the terrible smell he radiates. I think it could be a yeast infection but I'm not sure. He stinks up the bathroom so badly I will not even use it. If you are within a couple feet of him you can smell the strong odor. I don't know what to do. I am paranoid he is going to make me and my belongings smell, too, and I don't want to spend the entire semester going to the rec center to use the bathroom in attempt to avoid the smell. I'm new to college, so I am not sure if these things are common. I would love to hear some recommendations. It is really awkward because this kid will not even talk to me, so bringing up how bad he smells sounds like a terrible way to start things off.

Apparently he doesn't "see" tasks that don't create dopamine - which, seemingly, cleaning up his urine, putting the stacks of dirty dishes in the kitchen in the dishwasher, cleaning away the food he leaves all over the kitchen surfaces, and not stealing my or my parents liquor just don't produce. It is all symptomatic of a lack of respect but apparently it's actually because of his ADHD, which he's been medicated for for at least a year now (for what purpose if it helps so little?). My parents are at their wits end because he just doesn't listen or care, and my mum just says ADHD presents differently in boys than girls when I highlight that I've had (female) housemates with ADHD before and they were never anywhere near this bad. I think deep down, they know it's just an excuse for him, but mum in particular struggles to accept this.

my classes are 95% male (stem), yet on linkedin I find the most gorgeous women I have ever seen in my life studying the same classes I am! where do they come from? anyone find an enduring and everlasting love on there?

also, i'm pretty sure there's some type of facial scanning system involved because it's not a coincidence linkedin keeps sending me emails to connect with women i'd never have a chance with. it's cruel and inhuman. and satanic.

I've encountered so many male humans who just want to be owned or pushed. I would make jokes that men belong in cages or that I want to torture them and immediately I get men attached to me.

My friend is kind, cooks, submissive and men just ghost her or get bored. I treat a man like he is property and needs to be useful or kill himself and they're loyal without fault. Explain this to me.

/u/ElderExecutioner she's right, you pathetic frick. Stop crying on groomercord. No female wants a pathetic kitty male.

For the next three months, they remained in contact, before she said the groom invited her to a "white party" in Sydney in December, the court heard. She said after arriving at the venue she was "shocked" to learn the man had "organised a wedding".

The bride said she became uncomfortable and wanted to leave, but the groom told her "it was a simple prank".

"He told me that he's organising a prank wedding for his social media. To be precise, Instagram, because he wants to boost his content and wants to start monetising his Instagram page."

In court, footage of the ceremony was played, showing the couple exchanging vows and rings.

While the bride appeared to "enthusiastically" participate in the ceremony, she told the court it was "all an act".

"We had to act to make it look real," she said.

She said she only discovered the "sham" wedding was legal after he asked her to add his name to her application for permanent residency. She said the groom told her he was not a permanent resident and he had "organised the marriage to help him".

But the groom – who has 17,000 followers on Instagram but denied he was a social media influencer – disputed her version of events.

He testified that immediately after they met, he had told her he was bisexual, and that she was "cool with it" and moved into his home.

>bby I'm a bisexual illegal immigrant but I am NOT an influencer

"Precisely why she would participate in a civil marriage and not in a church marriage ceremony went unexplored. It made no sense to me that she would."

Stupid boomer judge, she did it for the 'gram!

Remember incels that she only exists because scrotes create the demand

This lady has made vids about her prison scroteoid for years and he apparently just got out. The Tr-mp hat really brought it all together

She has hundreds of posts like this lol

I guess she probably made a fair amount of money from this schtick though so.. slay I guess?? You better hope he doesn't have a !moidmoment and kill you though girl

A germoid married some Amerikkkan prison man

Girl he better be emotionally available!! What else does he have to do all day???

Not the pickmeisha mom!!

Meanwhile this is what y'all's m*n are doing while they're in prison

!moidmoment

!moidmoment

REVEALED: Women will be having more sex with ROBOTS than men by 2025 https://t.co/TO87mbCAHw pic.twitter.com/qKrTIIuAFP

— The Sun (@TheSun) June 30, 2016

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