New winning female dating strat: "I cheated and I don't feel bad."

I've been with my husband for 7 years, married for 5. I moved countries for us to be able to marry and I'm happy that I made that decision. I don't want to leave him, he's the perfect husband apart from one thing... The lack of s*x..

He has an extremely low libido which I initially thought that I would be able to deal with. Every year gets worse and worse.. We're very intimate, cuddle and kiss every night but he's just not that interested in s*x. I've asked him to seek help, I've asked him to allow me to look for s*x outside of the marriage (I would be happy for him to do the same if it would make him happy) I really feel like I've tried to be a good wife to him but yesterday I decided that my needs for a fulfilling s*x life should be a higher priority.

I met a friend in a hotel and had the best s*x I've had in 7 years. I don't feel any guilt at all. When i came home i was in a good mood and my husband and i had a nice evening together.

I don't feel like a horrible person but maybe I am.

Comments are full of

So you managed to cheat on your husband with a guy who is somehow a worse person than you? Go figure

If s*x is really so important to you you would have kindly explained to him everything, and either compromise or DIVORCE. Not frick another dude.

Or just break off the relationship? This is horrible.

But why? Everything else in our marriage is perfect.

One poster gets it:

(-4 points)

g shit

Foid posting her L:

My hubby had an emotional affair with my son's junkie girlfriend Hasn't touched me in 3 years so yeah life is diverse so stop and listen. You may be sympathetic to their situation. I wish it had been just about s*x. Emotional affairs are so much worse.

CMV: Anyone who uses the word "hubby" unironically is lower than a junkie slut. (spoiler: you can't change my view because it's correct)