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The frustrations of dating as a [37F]

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It seems like no matter how much dating I do both online and in real life, it's always the same story: The guys I am attracted to are not attracted to me back, and the guys that are attracted to me are guys I am not attracted to.

I do get lots of messages online - the quantity of messages is not the problem. The problem is the quality. The other day I got a really well thought out message from a guy on OKCupid, that was tailored to my profile description. I was ecstatic. But then I looked at his profile pic and saw it was an Indian guy. When this happened I just broke down and started crying, because the fact that he made the effort to write such a well thought out message means he thought he had a chance with me, and this made me feel like I am ugly.

I don't know what to do anymore. I tried losing weight but no matter how much I diet I just stay fat. I really want to get married and have kids, but that's not happening because I am just an ugly, fat, and now old woman.

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But then I looked at his profile pic and saw it was an Indian guy. When this happened I just broke down and started crying

:#marseyoctopus4:

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Yeah. You're an ugly, fat and old woman who cares more about a person's race than what he writes. And the frick you mean that you felt ugly because an Indian guy messaged you? What are you trying to imply here? That Indians are ugly and therefore only message ugly girls? No wonder you're 37 and single.

Found the :marseytunaktunak:

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DO NOT REDEEM

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WHY DID YOU REDEEEM? MAAAAAM MAAAAAM


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I tried losing :marseygambling: weight but no matter :marseylivesmatter: how much I diet I just stay fat. I really :marseythinkorino2: want to get married :marseybride: and have kids, but that's not happening :marseyfsjal: because I am just an ugly, fat, and now old woman.

:#hehecat:

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>The guys I am attracted to are not attracted to me back, and the guys that are attracted to me are guys I am not attracted to.

Not even gonna read the rest. She's playing out of her league :#marseyxd: I hate women btw

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Whole story eeads like fake reddit stories. But would anyone post 2 years later such followup with matching details.

No wonder she is single and childless. She write like shit

am fat, single, 35, childless, and have PCOS. I just can't stop thinking about how live would be different if I hadn't rejected him, because 16 years ago he seemed like he was really head over heels in love with me. I had lots of amazing s*x with various guys, which I have no regrets about, but

This reads like 100% parody bait post. Frick her if it isnt. She must be unhinged from way she writes

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Drama posters are r-slurs who can't tell fake from real but act clever by calling everything fake

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Many such cases!

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>19 and 25

eugh

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This :marseybreadcrumbing: was written by a seething Indian moid :marseychudindian:

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:marseychonkerfoid: I looked at his profile pic and saw it was an Indian guy. I just broke down and started crying because this made me feel like I am ugly.

:marseytroll: You're just going to have to lower your standards, sweaty. Also you're not entitled to a relationship.

:marseytrollcrazy: This! So much this!

:marseytrollcrazy: EDIT: Holy pickle rick on a stick! Thanks for the gold, kind strangerino!

:marseytrollcrazy: EDIT2: Thanks for the silver! About to go drink some soy before prepping the bull. Tally ho until then!

:whitenationalist: As an indian looking latinx guy thanks for making me feel like shit.

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The other day I got a really well thought out message from a guy on OKCupid, that was tailored to my profile description. I was ecstatic. But then I looked at his profile pic and saw it was an Indian guy. When this happened I just broke down and started crying, because the fact that he made the effort to write such a well thought out message means he thought he had a chance with me, and this made me feel like I am ugly.

It really is over for sexy Indian dudes. Even being the most successful racial group in the US and having romantic writing skills can't overcome the rizz debuff from being Indian. Can't even get an ugly old fat foid. :marseypajeetitsover:

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He could be first :marseywinner: generation :marseyreactor: immigrant from India :marseypajeetitsover: and Pakistan, which means he is more over than it should :marseynorm: be.

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One thing she will never try is simply moving more and eating less

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>You're just going to have to lower your standards, sweaty

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Reported by:

Ladies, if a black dude gives you a compliment, it's a sign that it's time to hot the gym.

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Is this bait? Dunno. Probably.

Has this or something like this certainly happened somewhere around the world within just the last year? Probably several times, yes.

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The only group less attractive than Indian males are black women, so I imagine it happens all the time. :marseypaperbag: :marseytunaktunakgenocide:

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Lots of angry indians in there but also the white people angry for them are LOL


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:#marseywholesome:

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I remember this post for years ago when it got linked to /r/incels

Also

Also you're not entitled to a relationship

This! So much this!

EDIT: Holy pickle rick on a stick! Thanks for the gold, kind strangerino!

EDIT2: Thanks for the silver! About to go drink some soy before prepping the bull. Tally ho until then!

Feels like a 2018 time capsule comment

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I was ecstatic. But then I looked at his profile pic and saw it was an Indian guy. When this happened I just broke down and started crying, because the fact that he made the effort to write such a well thought out message means he thought he had a chance with me, and this made me feel like I am ugly.

Bahaha holy shit. Foids are just as racist as chuds they just only express it through mate selection lmao.

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>I got a really well thought out message from a guy on OKCupid

The message: send bobs and vagene

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