I'm a woman and I've started reading men's dating advice out of curiosity and holy shit I feel so seen!
I never related to women's dating advice much because there was always the assumption that you had at least had a boyfriend before or had multiple guys hitting on you. Most of the videos are about “how to stop him from pulling away!!” Or “have higher standards girlboss!!” “Don't put out on the second date!!”
Like… my sister in Christ you actually have men approaching you???
Meanwhile I've read “Models” by Mark Manson and was like holy frick this is good advice.
And then I started reading Dr NerdLove (cringe name) but I relate SO much more to the male experience than the typical female experience.
Either I'm a trans man in denial or it's my autism but why do I relate so much to men's dating advice?
I'm gonna make assumptions about you and say it's probably the autism.
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Tbh I've never quite understood the whole incel thing or the red pill/JP/Dark Triad nonsense. I guess its a means to an end? If it works for some kudos to them I guess.
Its always been pretty simple to meet women even before the gay swiping dating apps. In no particular order:
1. Don't be a fricking slob.
2. Do practice good hygiene.
3. Do have a couple real hobbies. Playing video games and binging shows doesn't count. Maybe discover something you like to do thats somewhat eclectic, foids love hearing about that shit.
4. Do go out and interact with people. Redditors/incels love to sit in their pod and wonder why women aren't coming to them.
5. Getting rejected is not a big deal, happens to everyone no matter who.
6. Lastly, just be fricking polite and smile and say hi to people. Have a little rizz. Women can sniff out someone with no confidence a mile away.
Even as an old frick at 40 I'm still getting good results from these simple steps.
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Its basically just the min-max approach to attraction. Its the equivalent advice of telling women that men are attracted to skinny women with huge boobs that are supportive, so turn yourself into a bimbo. It will get you the most sexual attention, even if its dishonest.
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The problem is #6. Zoomers who are too scared/neurodivergent to date genuinely can't be confident at anything.
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I don't think you understand how r-slurred zoomers are. Telling them to have a hobby doesn't work.
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I don't think the red pill/dark triad/JP nonsense is a strategy to get women but rather incels complaining about how women are pursuing shitty guys over “good” ones based on shallow or psychotic things. Incels don't have strategies for improvement they just wallow in their own filth.
Gymcels do have goal aesthetics that aren't nearly as attractive as a personality, but I think most gymcels are either gay or want reps more than they want s*x.
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