Woman takes a symbolic issue and escalates it into a divorce
Turns out that she is supporting him and can easily trade up
Everything she says is reasonable, her useless man can only respond with frothing outrage
Now take the genders are reverse them where a guy is dumping his wife for pretending to be more trad than she actually is. See how the AITAH verdicts reverse.
mutenoct/urnal 5mo ago#6581455
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We fell in love, got married, and I have been the primary breadwinner while he pursued various career interests, none of which panned out so far, and he is currently unemployed.
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I asked him about the "women belong in the home" posts he had made and asked him if he thought I would be better at home. He told me that yes he thought I should be a housewife.
this is the real reason if you're a dusty useless bum sitting at home you don't get to complain or make demands
yeah i think the woman should be the homemaker (negative contribution to household income)
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Yep. It sure is an interesting coincidence how many of these "I am leaving my husband over a minor issue, AITAH?" posts also just so happen to involve scenarios where the husband is not contributing to the household.
It's the girlboss equivalent of a question like "my (56m) stay-at-home wife (51f) burnt the pot roast last night, should I leave her useless butt for a hot 20-year old Filipina who loves to cook?" Everyone can see the larger dynamic at hand.
I'm on her side if this is real. Dude relies on his wife's money but doesn't think she should have a career. Literal sub 90 iq behavior. She's dating a child.
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Reads like a bait post to me.
Woman takes a symbolic issue and escalates it into a divorce
Turns out that she is supporting him and can easily trade up
Everything she says is reasonable, her useless man can only respond with frothing outrage
Now take the genders are reverse them where a guy is dumping his wife for pretending to be more trad than she actually is. See how the AITAH verdicts reverse.
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It's absolutely someone writing about their girlboss fantasy and expecting Reddit to validate them.
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Imagine if the situations were reversed!
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Dramatards when a foid lies to score a man
Dramatards when a moid lies to score some poon
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He lied in good faith
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The moral stragging/celebrating degeneracy cycle is eternal
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That's the madonna/whore complex
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Most of us are moids
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this is the real reason if you're a dusty useless bum sitting at home you don't get to complain or make demands
yeah i think the woman should be the homemaker (negative contribution to household income)
NTA
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Yep. It sure is an interesting coincidence how many of these "I am leaving my husband over a minor issue, AITAH?" posts also just so happen to involve scenarios where the husband is not contributing to the household.
It's the girlboss equivalent of a question like "my (56m) stay-at-home wife (51f) burnt the pot roast last night, should I leave her useless butt for a hot 20-year old Filipina who loves to cook?" Everyone can see the larger dynamic at hand.
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It's called equality. How do you expect our society to reach 50% female breadwinners? hmmmm?
Your outdated sexist beliefs are showing.
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our society will reach 50% female breadwinners when lesbian couples are 45% of all households
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A woman's shelter on every corner! - President @mute during the 2028 elections
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The only thing worse than the industrial revolution is the 19th amendment.
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Absolutely deserved because a real man would have eventually turned his wife into a bigot like I did.
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I'm on her side if this is real. Dude relies on his wife's money but doesn't think she should have a career. Literal sub 90 iq behavior. She's dating a child.
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Snapshots:
https://old.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1dl72pv/aita_for_filing_for_divorce_after_discovering_my/:
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