AITAH for not letting my daughter's son's parents move in my house before I even had a chance to move in myself? : AITAH

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gringhastly gama/riki 2mo ago #6879400

they know where OP lives now, theyre going to come back when OP is not home and steal his appliances and electronics and copper wires snd sell it for meth money. and the boyfriend will probably be the one who lets them in

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LostAndConfused they/them gringhastly 2mo ago #6879809

Yeah, if the story is true in any detail (and I don't think so) the boyfriend is so spineless and brainwashed he'll talk this woman's daughter into getting a key, then hand it over to his parents to let them move in as squatters.

The real weak link is the daughter - Mom should be prepared to be stone-cold when dealing with appeals from "but I love him, he's the father of my kid, why won't you help us?" Be adamant that she'll only help her own daughter and grandkid, the boyfriend and his parents are his problem, not hers.

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Jewdanksdad bitch/plz Nah. 2mo ago #6880175

Daughters sons parents? That just loops back to talking about his daughter, grammatically

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LostAndConfused they/them 2mo ago #6879806

I think this is a fake story, but of course she's not in the wrong. It's her house, the daughter is living with her boyfriend and has a kid with him, they're not married, so the parents of the boyfriend are nothing to her. Let them get their own house, or move in with boyfriend.

Daughter sure can pick 'em, can't she? She should dump loser boyfriend and if Mom then allows her and her kid to move in with her, fine. But no hangers-on or leeches.