moids delenda est

>he has been the dominant one in our relationship so I have no idea where this is coming from

Ladies, this is what it's important for you to try domming your man from time to time. The patriarchal norms of our society make many men feel like they must be 100% dominant 100% of the time despite the fact that most men aren't. Sadly, many women perpetuate this power imbalance between the sexes by refusing to ever dom their man and breaking up with him if he suggests she doms up. !malefeminists spread the word!