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The "Iron Man" movie is a trans analogy

Iron's periodic abbreviation = Fe, Man = male

Fe male. FEMALE. Iron Man is at first a movie about wearing the appearance of another s*x, but only as an alter ego, like a shameful crossdresser. He first dons a rudimentary Iron Man (fe male) suit when he emerges from a cave (an allegory for Plato's cave?). Stark must then fight cynical corporate exploiters who just want to use the power of being trans for social gain (weaponizing Iron Man suits = selling fe male cosmetics to new transsexuals). Tony beats the plot, and then, against all social standards, (s)he breaks with advice and declares that "I am Iron Man (fe male)" at the end of the film, fully embracing her female nature and unifying his old self with her new identity instead of shamefully hiding it.