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Curious: r/dramas recommendations on non-app ways to meet gays in the wild?

!strayans I'm sick of apps.

Other than clubbing which is really meh (and expensive in a capital city), what other methods do you do to meet other gays?

I joined a leisure sports league. It was alright and full of gays, but then I moved to a place without one. Also got to meet cool guys at my last gym (regretting not asking out the guy who asked me to hold hos ankles while he did dolphins that pushed his butt so close to my face) but, again, fewer gays in my area now.

Should I just sign up to like classes or groups? Because I've been finding it hard to find non-uni groups and frankly I'm a bit long in the tooth (and short of patience) to be dealing with uni students.

Anyway - always down for more recommendations of cool activities. Preferrably those that attract other dudes.

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What city do you live in bc that greatly impact ur options

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New South Wales, outer suburbs. So it's a fair distance to Sydney city.

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Oh then I have no auggestions. Move to the city!

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Nah make city suggestions. I'll just have to suck it up and try not to die driving in Sydney.

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I do gay rec sports like dodgeball and soccer and its like a friend making machine tbh. Thats my go to suggestion for people. I just moved from the west to the east coast and dont use apps bc Im in a relationship and Ive already built up a solid friend group in the 6 months ive been doing it.

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Ah nice. I'll look into some leagues. Love dodgeball...but oof am I bad at it. Worth if I get to actually hang with people.

Also from Perth as well? Small world. I found dating there hard because of the relative affluence and beach culture giving guys huge egos.

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No I live in NYC hahaha, I meant in America! Sorry!! That's gays in every city tho I feel like.

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Ooooooo. That makes more sense.

Regardless, gay dodgeball is universal so I'll try to find a league and make some mates.

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Brunch

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Isn't that usually amongst friends though?

Or do you mean like 'drag brunch'?

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I meant more like brunch restaurants

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Ah good idea. I'm out in the suburbs though so not as many options.

I'll look into it. They might also have notice board with relevant stuff on it.

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Like waffle :marseywaffle: house?

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Do you live near a YMCA?

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Not really. It's an hour or so away I believe.

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:#marseyhomoitsover:

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:#marseygiveup::#marseysulk:

Pls no. I just want to make new friends and meet cute guys.

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Maybe I just swim laps again? Guys were always friendly and chatty when I did that.

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