A local queer bar near me has nights for specific communities sometimes so like there's gay nights, lesbian nights and trans nights they do others too I think. I went to a gay night with my boyfriend a few days ago. It was really fun for the first part of the night. We were talking to some people and I mentioned that i'm a trans guy (it was relevant to the conversation) I thought the people we were talking to were cool with it but like a little later one of the security told me I had to leave because I'm trans and that was making other people uncomfortable.
I didn't think going to a bar for gay men as a gay man would be a problem? The security guy told me I should go to the trans night instead. I just wanted to have fun with my boyfriend I didn't like mean to make anyone uncomfortable or anything. Was I in the wrong for going? I just want opinions tbh
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I've heard of fabled time when women and men had their own spaces. The lads had some sanctuary where they didn't need to deal with hole nonsense and the lasses had a place where there were no scrotes allowed. We had that back in the playground. Must have been nice to do that but with booze.
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