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Loser accountant asks r/socialskills how to join high society

https://old.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/yo1z0g/how_do_i_enter_the_realm_of_high_society_and

								

								

So I wanna know how I can possibly get out of the "normal" realm and instead surround myself with high-status individuals so I can be in high-status social circles? How do I possibly get my "foot in the door"?

His stats:

  • 28 y.o. male
  • Live in San Diego
  • I'm an accountant by profession - I know high status people like accountants

Any advice for this guy?

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Any advice for this guy?

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Unlike bugmen, whites don't rope when confronted with an unsolvable problem for the first time in their lives.

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I sure wish one did

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Someone tell him to join toastmasters or kiwanis or something and he can be quarantined with all the other larpers who pretend their three employee startup qualifies them to post pictures of watches and cars on instagram

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Take more showers

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I would love to live in Japan. My husband would love to live in Japan. Unfortunately it is a bureaucratic hellscape where you can't even start a company without the permission of a specific high-ranking government official and changing your visa.

Maybe I am just a dumb American, but you'd think Japan would love to see foreign entrepreneurs starting companies just like basically every other country does.

  1. Husband speaks Japanese and likes Japanese culture (he does genuinely speak Japanese, not just like kawaii desu anime Japanese).

  2. I want to live in that area of the world (south-east-ish Asia).

  3. Japan seems cool and it's a compromise.

  4. US is backsliding into authoritarianism

  5. Have a higher-ed degree that a competent authoritarian gov't would target

  6. Both of us are transgender & bi

I don't really have much family since my family, besides my siblings, have basically disowned me and I haven't seen them in ~a decade. My husband has a bigger family that are super welcoming and we'd miss.

It isn't so much a dream as it is survival. I am sure they'll be people saying we are being overly dramatic with making plans to flee the country, but I'd much rather be overly cautious than end up dead, in a camp or having to file for emergency refugee status. Trump losing bought us at least 2 - 4 years. It isn't that I hate America, it's that America seems to hate everyone like me.

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