Start off with this worthless anecdote (they reveal later they grew up in rural Appalachia mountains).
Or single mom with 2 kids, a $3300 monthly mortgage, (my house is 50 years old) and prices just keep going up.... got a hybrid to help on gas... just got my car tab bill and it was almost $600.... I feel like I'm constantly drowning, despite making more on paper than both my parents combined....
Buying a hybrid to help on gas . Includes the rent to give us a good idea she can't somehow make it on $4,000 a month after taxes and mortgage .
Not disagreeing with your main point, but I want to point out that as a fellow grad student, we tend to forget we do have subsidized apartments, free healthcare, comparatively very small commutes on avg etc on top of our salary.
Uhh none of that was true for me or anyone else at my school, or most of the grad students I've interacted with, aside from basic (non-dental/vision) healthcare being included in the funding package for some programs. We lived in the city because it was generally cheaper than living near campus and we did not have subsidized housing. Rent took up about thirty percent of my stipend.
So in other words, you lived nowhere near where you wanted to live? Thats a big thing about the COL in relation to the 100k target OP laid out.
Also, were you a student pre-pandemic? Were you a student pre-pre pandemic? The costs have only rise insanely high in the last 4 years. 5 years ago you could have bought a house in my neighbourhood for 150k, today its 500k.
Now imagine making 100k a year and having to rent a 400k condo in order to live in a decent neighbourhood, walk to work, have any space at all, etc. And all of a sudden now youre meant to somehow save for a down payment while rent sucks up half of your 100k a year paycheque.
And I know what youre going to say. "4k is way too much for rent, you need a cheaper apartment" and of course, you would need to rent a cheaper apartment, in a less nice neighbourhood, and smaller, with fewer amenities... But remember.. youre making 100k a year, how is that not a ridiculous situation to be in?
This is a different responder (or they forgot to log back into the account) but it's delightfully weird. All kinds of leaps in logic and even uses a stupid measure (rent a $400k condo) hoping you wouldn't think about how much this person is actually paying for rent. Can you imagine not living exactly where you want? Not I.
Where I live, to rent a three bedroom house costs about $3,500 per month.
If you assume mom and dad both have a car and car insurance, assume a family cell phone plan, electric and gas bills, gas for the car, assume a normal amount of credit card debt and assume a normal assortment of medical expenses and assorted media payments... Then add groceries for a family of four, plus some dental/orthodontist/medical costs for the kids, you're up to needing about $6k let month just to break even.
$6k per month is about what you'll make after taxes if you earn $10k per month, which is $120k per year. So that's about the break even point for a middle class family of four.
This poor guy carefully crafted this scenario where he came up with all the expenses he could for a family of four but they only went up to $70k a year. So he just assumes a 40% tax rate (it's more like 15%).
Massive generalization: Jobs that pay this well tend to exist in expensive areas. I can see how someone making 125k with kids in NYC would legitimately struggle, but you'd be a very rich man in my little town.
This. Our house old income is 300k…we also bought a house for 700k and had to bid 100k over asking price. It's wild out there…
To put things into perspective, before buying a home, we were paying $2600 for a 1 br, 800 sqft apartment.
I can't tell if this is a humblebrag, a lie, or he just completely misread what this post was saying. There are also a lot of similar responses too. Just to save you some effort, even if this person lived in California and bought this house at a 7% mortgage rate they would be netting about $17,500 a month and the mortgage would be like $6,000-7,000.
I live in NYC, I Make 6 figures. It's easy to not have money when
-the cheapest dirty takeout food place costs $40.
-Groceries while coupon clipping is $500 a week.
Now this guy is definitely a liar. Lists a bunch of other things.
“Single mom of 3”
Stopped reading. There's your answer
A ton of other posts where you know they're either just making up numbers that feel right, or there's $700 a month worth of uber eats orders they're not mentioning.
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lol bullshit. This is the person with $3000/month in doordash bills. At $200k/year if you are not supporting someone else, this is plenty with $4k in rent.
The people in this thread of fos.
Krayon sexually assaulted his sister.
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i couldn't even imagine spending 4k in rent a month lmao all that money getting flushed straight down the drain
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Welcome to California. All jokes aside, yea, that's a ridiculous amount of money to pay, and no matter where you live, you can get a modest apartment for far less.
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I looked up a $4000 apartment in Arlington, VA, a very affluent place
You can get a new construction 2Bed 1079 sqft place for $3988
Now that's white suburban NOVA/DC area where you can walk to the Blue/Yellow metro lines and get to other affluent places in the DMV area.
Aside from NYC, DC, and LA, $4000 rent will get you a fricking palace
I've paid much less than $2000 in mortgage for a 3000+ sqft house in major metro areas
Redditors are r-slurs
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Just live on the silver line. Move to Herndon and get a good 1br for 1700/mo
Or get a roommate and a 2br and spend ~1k/mo. That's what I did until I got addicted to crack cocaine and had to move to Charles Town and get a SW gf.
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how far out does Silver go now? I know they intended to get it out to Dulles
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It goes several stops past Dulles now, but they have an almost 1 billion dollar deficit for next year.
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it's DC, there's enough glowies going TDY there that they'll make that up 100x over within a decade
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You'd think, but with 50% of the work force still WFH it becomes harder to justify.
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I tried looking up properties on Zillow for my area, only 3 properties that exceed a 4,000/month mortgage -- two were historic waterfront properties, and the last is waterfront 6-bedroom, 7600ft².
Shit was good a decade ago. Bought my house for 89,500. 2 bed, 1.5 bath, 2.5 garage, workshop, 1150+768ft²
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A whole lot of people are banking on you not googling "[state] income tax calculator". If you call them out on it, they respond with health insurance and 401k contributions, both of which reduce your taxes.
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Healthcare, but also that $3000/month doordash bill. lol I don't want to say how much I make but some of the amounts thrown out there are close to mine, and I pay $5000/month on a mortgage. I have a cleaning lady, a landscaper, and a pool guy. I've got plenty of money to save and buy things I want. I hate hate hate car payments, but I will get a new Corvette probs in the next 5 years. These people are full of shit either in what they spend or what they make.
I admit inflation has definitely made an impact on my free money, but I'm not in these dire situations like these poseur redditors want people to think. But if my income is shit for a month, I'm not above going cheaper on food and tightening down on expenses.
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Yeah, they try to spend some tale of someone making $200k a year but somehow doesn't get any employer subsidized health care.
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At 200k/year you're actually at like 140k a year after the government manhandles your butthole for the poors to squander away
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I'm a contractor and work from home, so I like to get that taxable income way lower if I can. I can write off a ton of shit including home stuff. This year was my first full year with higher expenses so I think I can this year.
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These r-slurs can't accept that you can in fact not live in NY/LA/Chicago and make six figures. It's almost like there more to the country than the top 10 biggest cities.
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