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33-year-old pays $2,100/month to live with 23 roommates in Brooklyn—take a look inside

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In a city as notoriously expensive as New York, it's common to see people in their late 20s and early 30s living with roommates to help manage the high cost of living.

But Ishan Abeysekera has taken that to the next level with his current living situation in Brooklyn: a communal building that he shares with a whopping 23 other people.

"When I say I have 23 housemates, people are like 'What? That sounds wild,'" Abeysekera tells CNBC Make It. "But actually, it's quite nice."

The 33-year-old engineer lives in a space operated by Cohabs, a company that offers fully furnished bedrooms and communal living spaces for stays as short as 6 months or as long as a year or more. In addition to locations in Manhattan and Brooklyn, Cohabs has properties scattered across European cities including Madrid, Paris, London and Milan.

Abeysekera actually didn't set out to have so many roommates — or any roommates at all. When he first moved to New York City from London in late 2022 for work, his job put him up in a one-bedroom apartment in Manhattan's Financial District.

When he set out to find his own apartment, he looked all over the city for a one-bedroom that would fit into his monthly rent budget of $2,000 to $3,000. On a whim, he looked up communal living in Brooklyn and came across Cohabs.

When he went to tour the available room in Crown Heights, Brooklyn, he was immediately sold seeing some of the residents having dinner together in the dining area.

"How do you really meet people when you're new to a city? This seemed like a great way to do that," he says.

As a result, Abeysekera put pen to paper and moved in. He currently pays $2,100 a month for his room. His monthly payment also covers WiFi, utilities, household supplies, a weekly cleaning service and monthly communal breakfast.

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He initially had a smaller room for which he paid $1,850 per month — along with $1,850 due up front for his security deposit — but upgraded to his current space when the larger room became available.

The four-floor, 24-bedroom building's tenants range in age from 21 to 36. Each person has their own locker in the communal living area, and the six refrigerators have enough space for each tenant to have their own shelf for their groceries.

"Sharing a kitchen with so many people is completely fine," he says. "You have your own cupboard to leave your stuff in."

The building is complete with coworking spaces, an outdoor patio and a finished basement with a massive couch that can fit all the residents at once. There's even some gym equipment and number of ongoing building-wide exercise challenges.

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"There's so much shared amenities and space that you're never really in each other's way," Abeysekera says. "And everyone has their own space in terms of their own room."

Still, he admits that his current setup has "a lot of similarities" to living in a college dorm. But, he says, there's one key difference: "Everyone's a lot more respectful because they're more of an adult and more mature."

And just like some people you dorm with in college become friends for life, Abeysekera says he's formed strong relationships with people he has met through Cohabs.

"Being here has really helped me build a community and make friends," he says. "It's really enriched my life."

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Nothing hits the spot like some beans on fried bread with a bit of tinned tomatoes and black pudding, eh guvna? :marseybong:

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True I'm not much of a sweet breakfast guy. I have a protein shake. My office is trying to bring people back in by offering free breakfasts once a week and it just looks so unappetising. Some toast, cereal, yogs and Tesco pain au chocolats.

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I actually really do like black pudding, in the Philippines there's a mildly similar coagulated blood street food they call betamax (because the shape looks like a tape :marseyboomer: @Redactor0) which they season and grill or fry up. It tastes like stew with the texture of tofu. I don't have breakfast other than coffee which works out because people here serve white rice with every meal and the family judges me if I abstain when it's served.

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they call betamax (because the shape looks like a tape

One of the few occasions where I can't pretend that somehow my soul is more Filipino than American. I have vague memories that once when I was a young child I pointed at something and my parents were actually going to get it but then they explained that it was Betamax. Literally my only interaction with the format. I really hope that for some reason it had more success in the Philippines because otherwise you were eating food made by a hipster who is only pretending to know about 1980s videocassette formats. I don't want to be negative but that is obviously a mortal sin you better confess that fast.

!oldstrags Remember video stores? Those were the days. These zoomers just log on to their casual s*x phone app as their only way to interact with other people. They'll never understand walking around the video store with your date.

My mom loves this song. That's how I made her punk rock.

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Streetlight Manifesto did it better :marseyshrug:

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You must be trying hard to search for a way to make me hate you. :marseyraging:

Streetlight Manifesto was just him with another band doing everything way more soft and gay.

Could your effete f-slurs properly do "Keasby Nights"?

Flip side of that could they do "As the Footsteps Fade Out something"

Even in my don't care about anything character I'll fill you in on the details in a DM. BTW @Corinthian is my bestie. We have conversations all the time that you are not privy to. I hope that doesn't make anyone jealous.

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Oh God that joke reminds me of something in 5th grade... I gotta pace myself.

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Lo-fi just usually isn't my preference, Streetlight Manifesto has a cleaner sound which is less punk-authentic I guess but makes it a more listenable jam.

The only progress I've made with my own mom has been getting her to enjoy some of my weird dream pop and early Coldplay. Otherwise she still listens to Shania Twain and Faith Hill type stuff. :marseycontemplatesuicide:

BTW @Grue @ticktocktrainbuteepy I didn't post on the "what music do you have in common with :marseytrain2:" threads but I think dream pop qualifies?

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a cleaner sound which is less punk-authentic I guess but makes it a more listenable jam

!gaystapo Come get your boy.

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The gaystapo didn't crack down on coomers at all during June :marseyraging: USELESS USELESS USELESS :marseytrollgun:

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Punks are only trendy-queer and have no place in !gaystapo .

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Point/Counterpoint is a fricking :marseytom: great :marseygoodshit: song

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>Band I used to listen to in high school

:ma#rseyjam:

>My mom loves this song

:#marseydeadinside2:

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It's weird. She listened to absolutely awful shit for her whole life. If you haven't been forced to hear James Taylor's "Shower the People You Love With Love" you don't know what true torture is. Haven't been forced to listen to any of that pandering to women's feelings shit that bad other than when I was supposed to take MYMP seriously. !pinoypride

But then I got her to actually like good music. She's not extremely hardcore, but she loves some of these songs like this, some from the Dropkick Murphys, etc. that are more her kind of thing but actually good.

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