I've had multiple occasions now where I've had white women express their woes and it seems pretty bleak. 
I heard from a woman who's husband essentially kidnapped their daughter during their separation.
I heard from a woman whose parents used her as a pawn during their divorce.
I heard of one who had a miscarriage at 22 weeks.
In a generally bleak trend every woman I talked with was on psychoactive medication 
and many of them had been in the psych ward at some point. 
The bullying women do to each other also came up multiple times. 
Not sure what all this means but I'm suggesting we stop white women until we figure out what the heck is going on. 
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Unironically? I think some white women like the victim role. Don't fall for it. It's one thing for someone to be down on their luck but those closest to them should support them and if they had dignity they'd keep it quiet. If someone is selling you “woe is me” stories, I would beware that they are trying to manipulate you.
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One there went to the psych ward but I low key want to hook up so I'll keep this in mind.
Thank you for the reality check
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Just remember that players play, they don't get played.
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the fact u give goo advice like this makes you one of the good ones
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It's interesting how cultural (i.e. anglo) it is too. If you go east a bit and tell people those victim stories they look at you funny and go 'uh okay then'
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this. i've experienced white women like this and have learned NOT to offer them help, especially if it's an open ended offer. the second you don't do what they want you're the bad guy and are refusing to help them manage their trauma, and then you get made into the villain in the next manipulative story they tell to someone else.
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