my boyfriend broke up with me over not wanting to do anal 5 times a week
i'm not one to judge someone else's sexual preferences. i'm open to almost anything. my one thing is that i wouldn't do anal more than once a week since it's a LOT. my bf and me are long distance and we broke up a few days ago due to him saying he can't do the distance anymore (when we're irl, it's great, when we're not, he said it feels like a friendship). after talking about it for a few days and deciding we talked about everything and we discussed how to better our relationship & our needs/wants and out of no where he tells me that he actually can't commit to something if i can't let him do anal 90% of the time (when we would be together, he said he only wants that) then he broke up with me. is this normal? common? i'm heartbroken because i feel blindsided and if it was so important thought we would talk about it months ago (he's never tried it irl with me?). i don't know what to do and would love advice from people in similar situations. my first thought is this is abnormal but i might just have a clouded mind bc of emotions. i don't want to hate him and would be open to staying friends but also would love advice from other girls who may have had this happen too
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Anal is for gay men and coomers, he saved you from being with a
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I thought this account was some sort of born again gimmick but now you're posting about anal?
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Nah this is clearly a man posting coomerbait
Edit: tried to edit bait me but my response still works
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I don't understand anal in heterosexual relationships.
This seems like gay shit to me tbqh
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My wife doesn't want any more kids and she despises condoms.
I'm not ever getting snipped so here we are.
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Birth control exists
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I suppose it might be something "different" and "new" but tbh if your regular s*x sucks that much then you've got other issues to attend to.
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He's basically trying to make you into a s*x slave. He doesn't value the non-physical connection when you're long distance (saying it's more like friendship which means that he equates s*x with relationship) and he's pushing you to do acts you're uncomfortable with. I promise, it's not going to stop with frequent anal s*x.
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"Sexual incompatibility" is just code for "gay." How else can a man and a woman be incompatible?
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Magnus Carlssen retired from putting it up the butt of grandmasters on the reg to just bang
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Can't see the thread because it's 18+ and I don't have a Reddit account
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I'm mobile and it's that weird new URL.
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Well, there's your problem right there.
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I was told that the rdrama mobile app was the true way to experience the site.
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Oh you're right it's not working for me either
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He must like his ladies REAL loose in the goose. IF you know what I mean
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