Ex scheduled dr appointment for son
She (((thinks))) he has adhd
Hes literally 5 and all she does is give him a fricking iPad while he is at her house
I do not. He plays with legos 
for hours on end and has am excellent varied appetite (albeit a little picky but he's fricking five)
Anyways appointment time I get there early with my son cuz I'm a fricking well adjusted individual and we are waiting outside its nice and cool out yeah
See c*nt pull up in shitbox "hey son! Your incubator has arrived!"
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FF; enter building. "Oh anon btw u need to tell him he needs to get his blood drawn"
What. No.
Begin devising plan.
Stupid idiot dumb b-word didn't even bring proper identification/son for forms
I go home to """get my copy""" and peepee around calling my mom venting about how much of a neurotic idgit their mother is
Text "he is hungry" OK bring him granola bar and cheezitz for light snack because potential blood draw whatever idk
Get there; realize child and mother are no longer in lobby. They have collected his piss and height already.
I am pisst and highly upset.
Go in, sit w/ son. They begin blood pressure. Everything cool, leave.
Enter dialogue
Me, Chad;
"I am not comfortable with putting our 5 year old son on a clinical trial for adhd without taking him to our pediatrician and getting a professional opinion first"
Her, whiny stupid dumb idiot;
"WHAT THE FRICK DID YOU JUST FRICKING SAY TO ME YOU LITTLE B-WORD, I'LL HAVE YOU KNOW I TOOK HIM TO A THERAPIST OVER 6 MONTHS AGO AND THEY SAID HE IS SHOWING SIGNS"
(The origin story of her taking him to a therapist consists of her abandoning him within the first year of his life; thus feeling it was necessary to integrate herself back in while introducing a therapist into the mix ((that she doesn't even attend w/ the child she just lets him go solo wtf lol gr8 recovering)) and this is explained by her, herself; to the doctors, as to why he is in therapy in the first place. Lol
Me, Chad;
"Okay but im just letting you know when they come in here I do not consent to this test."
Her, pmsing, fat, Prozac munching pig;
"Well it doesn't matter they said only one needs to consent. 
"
Me, I am once again portraying myself as the Chad;
"That is great. I will not consent. 
"
ENTER FROM STAGE LEFT DOCTOR OVERHEARING HER WHINING
"uhhhhh okay anons imma have dr come in and talk" 
Doctor walks in.
Stupid, fat annoying foid ex dumb shit;
"UHM WE ONLY NEED ME TO CONSENT FOR THE TESTS RIGHT?!?" 
Doctor lady(dont trust 
);
"Why yes that is correct 
"
Me, 
"Okay well we have split custody and I will not be giving him the medication unless it is advised by the pediatrician and neurologist."
Doctor lady (semi trust this point);
"Well if that is the case we cannot continue with this; both parents must agree to continue the regiment"
Whole time dumb idiot stupid waste is fricking crying and trauma dumping on the nurses about how SHE HAD ADHD WHEN SHE WAS A CHILD TOO AND IT WASNT DIAGNOSED AND IT POTENTIALLY HURT HER DEVELOPMENT INTO ADULTHOOD (read as lack of just any fricking accountability for anything in her life included up to the year of our great Lord and Savior in 2023 soon to be 2024)
Doctors just kinda stare, semi smirking, somewhat confused; say well. Guess that's it.
Ex foid dumb shit already beginning to storm out, I thank them for their time and apologize for the inconvenience. They say its okay, one nurse happily chimes in "Oh but hey! You're still being compensated!"
Proceeds to hand stupid dead to me b-word $25 cash.
She was trying to bribe my son with a ben 10 toy to do a fricking clinical trial for children's adhd medicine under the age of 5 while giving me grief for wanting to just take my child to the pediatrician and get their professional view on my sons health before moving forward.
She throws his blanket at me in the hall, tells me to rot in heck. Told her I know she's living through that every day of her life and it brings me joy as I scoop my son up and walk out to the car with him.
I am beyond resenting this woman.
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i am going to be honest with you, you sound exactly like the kind of man who ends up in these relationships and the only person I feel genuinely bad for is the kid.
Your ex will overcompensate by treating your kid constantly like he is r-slurred and this makes her the victim. You will likely overcompensate in the other direction by ignoring any issues the child might actually have ( if such issues do develop which hopefully they won't ).
I am not saying that's what will happen for sure but I really wouldn't be surprised.
All in all you are the better parent in the same way that North Korea is a livable neighborhood when compared to Hiroshima and Nagasaki one minute after the nukes dropped.
Good luck.
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Thanks. If it helps; when he's older and if/still showing these signs i am more than willing to get him the professional help he needs.
Im just really skeptical on medicating children for adhd when they are just, well; kids. If hes bouncing off the walls and smearing shit all over the place by 13 then i'll definitely be eating my foot but by then he will be old enough for me to comfortably say "alright; you need help"
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Yes that helps.
Understandable
Fair.
Alright. You ain't half bad. I am upgrading you from North Korea to South Korea.
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Thanks anon this is the validation i seek
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Youre talking to a 16 yo.
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And they sound smarter than a 28 year old!!! Not the first time too!
ALSO WHY ARE THEY HERE THEN
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rDrama is the hip new place to meet libertarians
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There for you in the little ways.
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Especially boys. I've noticed a lot of moms who don't have a decent husband/paternal figure are quick to look for an ADHD diagnosis for their young boys, because they don't understand them. It's honestly why I think having elementary education be so overwhelmingly female is bad for male children, they're surrounded by adults who often don't understand them, and refuse to understand them.
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This is exactly the kind of thing that makes lesbian couples not wanting a son, a good thing.
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Lesbians should not have children at all
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You should not take your lips off my anus
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I'll crack open your skull
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I'll smash your head apart with a rock, and frick your dad after to cool off.
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you're cute
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