I'm very new here, and was a popular janny at a simpler time in life, so I value community input greatly. I am genuinely asking for additional ideas on how to do better self care for myself and my live-in bf. I already have started cooking even more often than was typical before, and have stepped up my efforts to clean my spare room so that Mr. Man can enjoy a clean gaming space. That second one is my project for the month (or week, at the pace I've somehow maintained so far!). Men, those who love men, anyone - please, help me make my impending fourth year with this lovely man better for us, especially him ❤️
For context, I do work a PT job and am waiting to hear about a second and even third pt way to make money. So I do have my own obligations outside of the house regularly.
I look forward to your replies 
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if you like to cook get an instant pot. you can do all sorts of stuff with it, i just use it for rice but it's nice to have the rice come out perfect every time. also i can prepare other parts of the meal at the same time as the rice cooks without having to pay any attention to it.
it's good to have a shared hobby to spend time doing something together. obviously idk what he likes but moids are simple creatures, just ask him and he'll tell you.
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I have used my crockpot and rice cooker to the point where the crockpot smells permanently of caramelized onions 🤣 but you're spot on, they can take more abuse
Well, he and I do a lot together at home. I am working on being more of an social person outside of work obligations. He has expressed that he'd like to go out more. It's just rough because I have a highly social job - not much service voice left in the battery for the rest of the week after halfway through, like, Wednesday most weeks lmao
But I'll try harder. He does so much for me.
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