I'm very new here, and was a popular janny at a simpler time in life, so I value community input greatly. I am genuinely asking for additional ideas on how to do better self care for myself and my live-in bf. I already have started cooking even more often than was typical before, and have stepped up my efforts to clean my spare room so that Mr. Man can enjoy a clean gaming space. That second one is my project for the month (or week, at the pace I've somehow maintained so far!). Men, those who love men, anyone - please, help me make my impending fourth year with this lovely man better for us, especially him ❤️
For context, I do work a PT job and am waiting to hear about a second and even third pt way to make money. So I do have my own obligations outside of the house regularly.
I look forward to your replies 
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For real answer: be his peace. Every good man is used to being the crisis fixer, all day at work, every one in his family, and most of his friends. Just be as peaceful as possible in the home and make it a warm place for him. Men also crave respect more than they crave love. Tell him how much you respect him and he'll move mountains for you.
Meme answer: suck his peepee and dont be fat.
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