A few weeks ago I started dating for the first time. I'm in my twenties.
| STATS SO FAR | Value |
|---|---|
| Total dates | 6 |
| Total girls dated | 3 |
| Over/back status | It's over |
| ABOUT THE GIRLS | Count |
|---|---|
| Higher than a 6/10 | 2 |
| Were asexual | 2 |
| Broke up with me | 1 |
| Had a fun first date with | 3 |
| Friendzoned me | 0 |
| Met on OkCupid | 2 |
| Met on Bumble | 1 |
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some stats from my hookup autism spreadsheet
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Darn, you're cleaning up on the sad, desperate-to-get-an-A set.
Sadly your use of Excel makes you completely unfrickable in my book.
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Desperate girls love me :)
Excel is the most convenient for keeping records but what if I remake them with python or r?
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ggplot2, or no thot 4 u.
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+ geom_bar() 😏
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Disgusting
whore 
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How did you get this much kitty king?
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dating apps mostly
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palestinian lives matter less than Israeli
lives
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it's just default foidery, as in they feel asexual until chad comes along, as the incels say
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I probably would have agreed with you before but girl #2 was 100% non-meme asexual despite being into me, which is why I broke up.
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Dude 2 out of 5 above 6/10 @collectijism is like 2 98 out of 125
Trans lives matter
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I have no idea what you are saying
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yep, had one lie to me she was a lesbian
i was so stupid lol
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Friend zoned him
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Literal incel flexing his knowlege of women.
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I am women magnate something you ain't. Even today a girl hinted she wouldn't mind marry me. So keep coping
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volcel
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I was young and inexpirienced 1 month ago, will not be making the same mistakes.
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sounds like you are just having bad luck maybe you'll get lucky next time
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Honestly it's not even that bad. It's a lot a fun and will make me less likely to fumble the actual good ones later.
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practice makes perfect keep it up man
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Thanks king.
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Exposuse therapy does not work if you are ovelwhelmed by the exposure resulting disconnecting from your emotions.
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He can take the edge off with drugs.
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Have you considered just fricking some practice girls instead of trying to pitch for the big leagues on your first day out?
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My brother in christ these are the practice girls
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A practice girl isn't someone you take out twice and don't frick. We're talking coffee at a maximum and then back to your place.
These girls are clearly out of your league.
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The dating culture is diffrent in Israel + I don't want to frick on a first date.
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Dude, if you're looking for a long-term relationship on dating apps, you're missing the point of them. The only reason I used them was to hook up with chicks I don't want to see again. Try meeting girls through mutual friends instead.
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I know multiple people in ltr with people they met on dating apps and I don't know that many people.
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People who date on dating apps have to sift through tons of shit people just to find someone decent, and even then, it's rarely worth it. Plus, most women who would actually date you won't even swipe right because they can't tell if they're into you based on a couple of pics and a bio. Dating through meeting people real life isn't a cakewalk, but it's still miles better than relying on dating apps.
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So far I've been real happy with dating apps. I think it varies a lot based on the dating culture in your area, who you go for, and how you look.
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If it works for you, good for you! I hope you find a nice girl who loves you there. Best of luck, jewbro!
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The things I'm talking about aren't socially acceptable anywhere. Thats how it's practice you dork.
You're coming off as efiminate when you say shit like this. Try rephrasibg it in a way that implies you would frick her if she was hotter but don't be mean about it.
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I don't say that to girls obviously.
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Have you considered stop being a fat loser?
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I'm not fat and I am almost comically successful in all areas of life.
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Pal you need to work on your personality more
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My personality is the best thing about me.
If you want to drag me down call me a manlet.
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That's sounds like you are boring
You got a second date so ironically you passed the looks test but not the personality one
But don't stress out you'll find one day a girl that will make your life miserable
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You are the last person on earth I would take dating advice from.
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Can you explain why they gave you second date then ?
You told you are manlet so you suggesting they couldn't see your height good the first date and came to second date with a tape ?
First date your looks have the strongest impression and other date is all about personality. A girl would never insist a second date if she found the guy unattractive.
Ask
@FrozensBanEvasionAcct if I am wrong tho
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Please re-read my last comment in this thread.
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I give you good advices so you don't follow them
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By having a True score over 50,000, right?
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Obviously I don't know the specifics of you and these girls, but this is my advice: date down slightly on looks. I get that it's kind of a meme at this point, but it works. You don't need to date way below your looksmatch…but a little bit.
Most other advice you hear (waiting to text, etc) is mostly bunk, although you don't want to be clingy/needy.
Lastly, the biggest red flag for most women is a guy with a temper. So always keep it calm, cool, confident and collected.
Edit: secular women are particularly hard to maintain a relationship in this day and age. While Christian women are easier to date, you also don't want to pretend to be a Christian just to date them. Obviously not cool.
Edit #2: Avoid dating women with kids. You will get attached to the family dynamic (regardless of what the internet says) and those women will drop you faster than anyone.
I've been married for a while now, but the above is based on past experiences.
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Honestly i'm still figuring out what my looksmatch is..
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Oh another thing - most women are not terminally online (at least not in the same way a lot of guys are), so avoid bringing up internet-y things at first. Build a relationship with them on a local level, if that makes any sense.
Also (if applicable) stop watching porn
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Not that neurodivergent but thanks.
why?
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Has a lot of downstream impacts (personality, possibly looks, overall vibe). But that's just my experience and opinion.
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Maybe ask someone who you trust will be honest? A female friend or sibling would probably be best for that.
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Ok, I'll ask.
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try to meet some irl too
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keep going king jordan missed shots too
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Thanks king
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There's your problem!
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What's the alternative for someone with a social circle that doesn't go to acitivites with young people?
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Yea I should probably sign up for some clubs or whatever but why not meet people on apps in the meantime?
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Only good post I've ever seen on /h/personal
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Not to be a peepee but it was not an amazing first date, from her end at least. Those are solid numbers though, so keep going
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Thanks for the input
@Suicide_Enthusiast
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How many did you frick?
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0.
Not in the table because I think it's a bad mindset.
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to frick?
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I'm not against fricking but my goal is to get to know a woman first.
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cute twink
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I wish I was
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Learn to dance
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OkCupid? I figured that was a graveyard by now.
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i'm in Israel
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So learn
from this. Dates you think 
are amazing gave her the ick.
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