By studying the blackpill I have figured out what you need to do to be successful in life (male)

https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill

1. Be fit

2. Be good looking

3. Be rich

4. Status is only important to the extent that it reflects that you are rich and good looking

5. Be white

6. Personality - Be masculine, don't outwardly display empathy, be dominant, be manipulative, be anti-social without consequences.

7. Be tall

8. Keep things slightly unstable at all times

9. Have s*x and as many sexual partners as you can for good mental health

10. Be competitive against other men

11. Be in the top 5%-20% of whatever you are doing

12. Don't show remorse

Note:

Being kind or being a provider (and nothing else) doesn't work in the majority of cases. It is not expected of men nor is it desired of men to not be selfish.