I've been questioning my identity as a feminine dude… : redscarepod

Link: https://old.reddit.com/r/redscarepod/comments/179kgrt/ive_been_questioning_my_identity_as_a_feminine

Title says it all.

What I'm not sure about:

Wether I would like having boobs

Wether having a vag would be better

What I'm pretty sure about:

I would love to wear makeup

I would love to wear dresses, skirts and other typically feminine stuff

I don't like being called by my birth name and being referred to as he/him

I don't mind having a peepee too much (like maybe 4/10 discomfort level)

I don't like being called handsome/strong/etc. (being called cute/pretty/beautiful/etc. would be so much better)

What I know 100% bc tried:

Having even the slightest stubble on my face makes it impossible to go outside

I hate having body hair

I love wearing nail polish

I love having kinda long hair (shoulder length)

What I don't know:

MY GENDER. Being a girl seems pretty cool, but being a femboy doesn't seem bad either and being like full girlmode all the time isn't necessary to me, it's fine if people think "is that a boy or a girl?" thats why I thought I've always considered myself feminine.

Do any of those clues tell you what I am? Am i a femboy or a transgirl? Or a dude simply rocking?

Ofc "only you can know what you are" but I'm questioning it for at least a year now and I have no idea. I only know that I prefer presenting fem, but gender identity =/= gender expression.

I forgot to make my post in this hole. But I was bored and did some trolling after seeing displeased rsp users complain about normies.

Here are some responses:

You're a dude rocking, being a feminine man is hot and artsy, while being trans is ugly (most of the time) and gay

: I feel like I would look cuter with a Amazon wig and a wrinkly school girl uniform. :/

This is the end result of everyone here pretending to be too cool for the podcast. We built this

: True! I came here from breadtube and I've never listened an episode of rsp lol. I heard the girls are pretty problematic, fat, and toxic but the users here are really nice!

Nooooo not the heckin normies mirrroring our deadpan affliction towards the podcast!!

this question decides everything: are you depressed, and does becoming more feminine alleviate that depression? if yes, is being masculine truly the source of your depression? or is becoming feminine merely your chosen way to treat that depression? those options may seem similar, but the difference between them is crucial.

: “being masculine truly the source of your depression?” It's definitely been the source of my anxiety (I also suspect it's impact on my ibs). My gender is so confusing, there are days where I'm okay with wearing jeans but other days I just want to wear a skirt or dress, I don't like listening to Joe Rogan but sometimes I like listening to podcasts (usually true crime which is fem energy lol). I usually eat meat daily, but there are weeks where I'll accidentally eat vegetarian. My favorite colour is hot pink, while most fem guys will say “salmon pink”. This is why I can't tell if I'm a trans girl or feminine man.

I think this is a valid reason to transition tbh.

Omfg why are people treating this sub as another 🚂 questioning sub. There are so many subs for this (including every gay and women's focused subs) and Reddit will literally not allow anyone to say anything other than yes you should 100% do it. No one cares about you or what you do with your body stfu. Edit based on the persons responses: I'm convinced it's either the same person from earlier or an organized effort to bait people for excuses to get the sub banned.

they spread like a disease

: ppl are realizing they can be who they is a disease then I hope it becomes a pandemic!! Please let people enjoy things, no need to yuck their yum imo.

Are rsp users easier to troll than kiwifarms? previously, I've noticed every time I'm sarcastic there are a few users who take it too srs.