Years ago I was dating a super hot guy who lived like an hour away from me so we sent each other a lot of nudes. I went through his phone once and saw he followed a page that was just for girls that had vaginas without lips and got super insecure because mine has lips right. So next time we were sending each other nudes I Facetuned it to make my lips smaller.

My plan was to be somewhat conservative with my edits so maybe in real life he wouldn't be able to tell but I am not skilled in mobile editing apps so it was probably ridiculous looking. It was years and years ago but sometimes I remember I did this and it ruins my day. Like today I was getting coffee with my mom and she was talking about the woman leading the opposition movement to Maduro in Venezuela and I just tuned her out thinking about this. A few weeks ago when I got into my phd program, I thought of this and my face dropped mid celebration. It's sobering to remember.

What kills me is I found out that you can see it was edited when you save it because the file is automatically named "facetunesomething" so I'm sure he knew. I try to remind myself that I broke up with him and he threatened suicide to feel better but I just knowwww he knows.

TLDR CharliXCX is a musician who wrote a song inspired by Dasha. She was also friend with a musician who transitioned into afterlife. This obvious moral conflict confuses our OP.

You heard about G*merGate getting Trump elected, but what about RedScare getting Trump reelected?? Plenty of yapping under this comment, is Dasha an alt right republican? Is New York getting MAGAified?

The problem with Dasha is that she's a relevant political actor with a far-right agenda to get Trump & the Republican Party elected to get Project 2025 implemented. She's an active threat to freedom, democracy & civil rights

OP's issue isn't just that Charli is friend with Dasha, we need to think about the message her music could carry

(OP) and also for many people charli is a role model, and so they could think that being friends with far-right is okay, and it doesnt say anything about you as a person??? she's a queer icon, so i guess i can wait from her at least some political clarity?

It's absolutely 100% your own fault if you saw her as a role model and became influenced by her.

(OP) girl wtf music is also media that can be used for propaganda, artists do have responsibility on what things they putting into their art

Charli XCX makes music about snorting coke and drunk driving

Glad to see an artists who stands for rights of all oppressed groups