Out of all !foidmoment this is truly one of them

I do not know what to do and I need to rant. A little backstory: I have dated this guy on and off for multiple years, but this time it was actually getting serious. However, things started to get weird again; he started ignoring me, would walk past me when he saw me, became distant and avoiding, but some times he would be very cute towards me, called me late at night just to make sure that I got home safe (mostly when I went out on the weekends), give me unexpected shows of love, etc. It was all very confusing.

>be man PERIODT

>like girl

>dont blow smoke up her butt 24/7 but go off i guess

So confused rn

So one day, I was ranting to my best friend about it and she basically told me to leave him. Mind you, the three of us have been close friends for a very long time. But she started saying that he didn’t deserve me, that he was immature, that it was always the same with him, that I needed someone who would appreciate me for me

so she got told to do something or shut up

Almost every day she kept asking me about it and reminding me, when she could, that he was mistreating me (which he was, no one deserves to be ignored for no reason). Finally, things ended between us after I poured my heart out to him and he promised that he would change for ME, but the next day, it got even worse and he could not even look at me. After that, I really didn’t talk to him and tried to avoid him

sounds like they were going to break up literally any way

A few weeks later, we saw each other at a party and he “apologized” and told me that he had really bad commitment issues. And that was that. I cut all kinds of contact with him after it

Im an r-slur but so this foid didnt like just leave him, she shunned him