Today at the YMCA I finally had enough. This is the 5th time I have had an uncomfortable situation with a man, in which no action was taken in my defense.
Some man with his 2 little boys was leering at me, making kissy faces at me while I was trying to do down dog so I moved to another side of the room and he moved chairs to keep staring. In front of his children
The next incident involved a very flamboyant man doing dead lifts with see through shorts that left NOTHING to the imagination. Reminder that this is a family gym and there were high schoolers looking and laughing at him. Management was informed and no action was taken.
yikes, cool it with the homophobic remarks sweaty
The 3rd incident involves an unsupervised child knocking over my water bottle and spilling water all over my phone but I felt like I would just be considered a b-word if I spoke up
The 4th happened on Monday when a teenager that's a full foot taller and at least 80 pounds heavier shoulder checked me in the hallway! Like, so hard that I hit the wall
As I exit, these two older grandpa looking men seem to coming in so I try to hold the door to be polite. They wave to me that they are staying outside and I move on
one of the grandpas is now pushing the other sled RIGHT NEXT TO MINE even though there's no one else on the patio and lots of open space.
half way through my last run (I'm pulling 100 lbs and walking backwards) I RUN INTO THIS GRANDPA BECAUSE FOR SOME REASON HE'S RIGHT BEHIND ME.
I freak out because I'm startled and I hit my Achilles tendon on his fricking sled so I tell him to watch out. He just like laughs at me? Smiles or something? So I finish my run and go inside to tell management that he's being unsafe
When I get outside I hear the same person I'd reported to MAKING FUN OF ME to 2 teenagers.
he had the audacity to tell me I was in the wrong because the old man is disabled
What do you think? Was I being dramatic?
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Bro you go to the YMCA for the gym? Mistake number 1😮😮😮 always a fricking mistake.
It is never someone's mistake for being harassed or assaulted. Your comment has victim blaming all over it. We should not be accepting that we should just avoid certain public places because they are poorly run. Yes of course we should take our business elsewhere and report it, but what I mean is it should not be acceptable behaviour ANYWHERE.
victim blaming??!?
The Y is a christian organization, hence the misogyny. Good luck.
the Y is a Christo-fascist organization
I don't like that you said “flamboyant man” to describe the man.
That is sexual assault!
Why are men so unwilling to even entertain the idea that they might be in the wrong??
Be sure to give them negative reviews on Google Maps, Facebook, Twitter, etc.
Co-ed steam room? I don't think those exist, she probably just ran into a
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they act like women are any better at gyms. like 75% of them arent there to score a fit man
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This but unironically
Onlyfaners on TikTok have been making a fuss about dudes ( two of whom were actually blind) checking them out on gym some months ago
Was a huge online drama
Ok, first of all - they did everything to get noticed on purpose
Secondly, it's been found out that some of those women had been posting creepshots of hot dudes online
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they do all kinds of shit for attention, ie dress like a stripper, hog equipment, etc then when they perceive they are getting it act all indignant about it again for attention. They're double dipping for attention first at the gym for dressing and acting like a whore and then on social media because someone may have given them what they're looking for. !fitness imagine not being a home gym chad and having to deal with not just trying to get on equipment but also foid nonsense such as this
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I'm neurodivergent so I had to be a home gym chad !r-slurs can you relate?
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i got a home gym because people who were benching twice what i weigh kept asking me to spot and it made me mald so much and @iStillMissEd had to let me know that is how people flirt at the gym
i probably would've gotten one eventually regardless of autism tho. destroying your body with the world's worst kettlebell swings hits different when u can do it 100% naked and blasting this on the speakers instead of headphones
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Excuse me, what? I just ask whoever's around when I'm stepping up the weight.
!fellas This is bullshit, right?
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I have never asked a women I didn't want to bang to spot me
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Oh, I'm safe then.
I only ask big buff men to spot me, after all!
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i can't deadlift what they're benching i thought they were just r-slurred for the longest time. maybe they still are tho, i'll let the fellas deliberate
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Spot me, won't you?
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Sure king, as long as it's squats.
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Sometimes just helping out, sometimes just making an excuse to talk
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lmao based and cell pilled
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That's only cuz you're a woman
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hi
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I autismmax at PF because it's a no judgement zone so I can be as spergy as i want and they can't do or say SHIT
no one can stop me from humming the FNAF theme in my pepe shirt while curling 5lb weights
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i did the same thing lol. didn't really have a home gym but i lifted weights at home
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Ascend to yard gym chad
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At the planet fitness a 9/10 foid showed up in a skintight skintone bodysuit and no one interacted with her.
Never saw her again.
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I homegym because I don't wanna pay to go to a planet fitness where I can't deadlift and need to use gaychines , plus I'd be worried of people looking at me
Although I'm too broke to buy more than 200lb's of plates and my bar is a home depot cut of metal that'll probably kill me one day
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Looking at hot chicks is one of the perks of going to the gym. I dont live somewhere its normal to film yourself, and not normal to believeallwomen on every r-slurred impulse.
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idgi tbh who goes to the gym to stare at butt. ofc i look at butt while im there cuz it helps but its not like im staring pupil dilated straight at some chicks butt while i work out ur wierd if u do that
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you're doing it wrong then you need that test boost
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Anyone with the sense and space should set up a home gym. You don't have to deal with any of the annoying people, influencers, whores, or highschoolers you see at real gyms.
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I went couple of times to regular gym, I start my workouts with 30 min run minimum and then some sprinting, me dead after it comes 2 land whales telling their names to me
I must have done everything for 2 landwhale to notice me
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Must be tough for women at the gym who realize that the more fit a guy is the probability of him being mega neurodivergent or a flaming homo approaches 1
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I always see this foid at the gym checking me out when I'm creeping on her in the mirrors
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Meanwhile me working out
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Literally me
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lol where is this from?
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Just some random Instagram reel I found
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I think it's an old episode of the Simpsons
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If this fellow had been reading to young children it would have been super wholesome though!
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Foids complaining about what men wear in the gym has to be the pinnacle of hypocrisy.
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I've seen Maxim covers with women wearing more than those at my local gym
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Honestly This actually makes me seethe because women will wear the same shit and say that they're “not wearing it for attention but for themselves”
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If it's legal on a playground it's legal in a bar on stage
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Meanwhile, women are one super-tight, 90% transparent yoga pants away from being in a string bikini.
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It's because he wasn't interested in her and women can't stand that
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Then complain about how it's a family gym and the guy wearing tight shorts is being to sexual
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Transparent shorts, which are pretty gay (in a good way) tbh.
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STOP SEXUALIZING MY HOT WET KITTY
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woman moment
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I had to look it up.
It's a s*x position. Giving it an ancient Chinese origin doesn't make it not a s*x position.
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Least coomer moid
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Lmao. Chonk detected
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I noticed you don't have a verified thin badge. Curious.
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Reddit is that way ~>
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I'm sorry, i don't speak fat
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Not blaming you, women ruined yoga ten years ago
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Who does yoga alone in the gym? Do that at home b-word.
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Could she just do it the opposite way, wtf.
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When everything everyone does is somehow linked to you, you're a schizo.
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Someone accidentally bumps into her
HE CHECKED ME INTO THE WALL
I've been going to gyms for years, and if someone is consistently perceiving shit like this happening to them then they absolutely have a personality disorder
… Lol and she's old
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obviously lifting off more than on. Who the frick goes to the ymca gym after going to a real gym once
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Why do you need to go to a gym to do your "downward dog" nonsense?
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"STOP TRYING TO CONTROL MY BODY CHUDPUBLICAN!!!"
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Women should be able to rub their bare nipples in public without people looking at them, any other opinion is violence against women
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free the nipple
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Yes, my comment was not meant sarcastically
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Never said it was, that's the only social movement that I'd go to a physical protest to support
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Those are not going to be attractive women attending
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always hope for the best, if I can dream then it can happen
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they should do it more in public
only if they're hot though
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Things that will result in same-day public caning when I'm wealthy enough to buy Tuvalu or wherever; uttering the phrase "plus size" " healthy at any weight" and "fatpobic ! !1!"
Plenty of rope to anyone caught importing, selling, possessing women's clothing above size8.
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Because the foid can't do in-person sexual attention whoring at home.
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Warmup before squats r-slur
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cute twink
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Do squats to warmup for squats
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HER BODY HER CHOICE
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She had better be vaccinated
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“The next incident involved a very flamboyant man doing dead lifts with see through shorts that left NOTHING to the imagination. Reminder that this is a family gym and there were high schoolers looking and laughing at him. Management was informed and no action was taken.“
The only thing this moid did wrong was not setting up a camera and filming everybody looking, then getting mad they were looking on social media
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well, the homo was looking for attention in hopes of getting railed, foids who do this are looking looking for attention so they can get a lot more of it on social media
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zoz
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zle
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zozzle
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If he's there doing heavy deadlifts he can do w/e he wants.
Foid was jealous people were checking him out instead of her, that's why she's rolling around on the floor spread eagle and doing downward dog.
trans lives matter
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It's fun to stay at the... CHRISTO FASCIST ESTATE!
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does her water bottle not have a fricking lid? this is 100% on her.
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How poor is she? Aren't all phones splashproof these days?
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His body his choice, sweaty 💅
Just because he's wearing comfortable clothing confidently doesn't give you the right to judge or sexualize him based on how he's dressed.
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