F24 and M26 talking stage not looking good.
is it me? F24 here and my horoscope told me to be very open minded to the next man that approached me because it would be my lifelong partner. No joke, I am seriously not lying, within seconds a message pops up in my inbox from a man. I allow the conversation to begin and now I've been chatting with him nonstop for 1 week so far. But in one week I'm starting to realize personal things that I don't like about him. For starters, I thought he was opening up to me specifically but now I think he might just be an open book and talk a lot to everyone too ( I don't like guys who have big mouths), he hasn't been asking any questions to get to know me! He asked one personal question, which I didn't mind, and I got a little bit vulnerable for him and he instantly changed the topic and started talking about himself again. I also think he has such a super busy lifestyle that he'd get bored of me. Lastly I'm not even attracted to him physically, or sexually. I was really banking on having a strong emotional connection to spark my attraction to him. I also don't want to turn him down or ghost him because my horoscope literally said this was the man for me and the way he approached me very shortly after I read that horoscope felt like divine timing. It's not feeling like my other relationships in the past, it's much more hard to navigate.
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Women aren't mature until age 35.
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If her eggs aren't dusty, I'm not touching that kitty.
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But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with the S*x inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:
1. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor'd with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable.
2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.
3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc'd may be attended with much Inconvenience.
4. Because thro' more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin'd to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.
5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.
6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.
7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.
8[thly and Lastly] They are so grateful!!
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