F24 and M26 talking stage not looking good.
is it me? F24 here and my horoscope told me to be very open minded to the next man that approached me because it would be my lifelong partner. No joke, I am seriously not lying, within seconds a message pops up in my inbox from a man. I allow the conversation to begin and now I've been chatting with him nonstop for 1 week so far. But in one week I'm starting to realize personal things that I don't like about him. For starters, I thought he was opening up to me specifically but now I think he might just be an open book and talk a lot to everyone too ( I don't like guys who have big mouths), he hasn't been asking any questions to get to know me! He asked one personal question, which I didn't mind, and I got a little bit vulnerable for him and he instantly changed the topic and started talking about himself again. I also think he has such a super busy lifestyle that he'd get bored of me. Lastly I'm not even attracted to him physically, or sexually. I was really banking on having a strong emotional connection to spark my attraction to him. I also don't want to turn him down or ghost him because my horoscope literally said this was the man for me and the way he approached me very shortly after I read that horoscope felt like divine timing. It's not feeling like my other relationships in the past, it's much more hard to navigate.
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I've been trying to keep Snally's "foid moid" post in mind, but I gotta do it twice today. This is just such a classic !foidmoment. Wanting the guy to tell you all the secrets of why he's dark and brooding, because you're the only one he trusts.
Advice for foids: if that's what you want, you have to accept what you get. You don't get to drag out all of the guy's secrets and then decide he's putting too much emotional labor on you.
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Foids are incapable of feeling happines. If you give them everything they want. They start poking holes until they are once again unhappy
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The problem is some of them get off on being sad. Goth gfs are a lot more difficult to deal with than the internet tells you.
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Fun fact. This was once common knowelege and didnt need to be pointed out
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Oh, they can't? And how exactly will you stop them?
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