F24 and M26 talking stage not looking good.
is it me? F24 here and my horoscope told me to be very open minded to the next man that approached me because it would be my lifelong partner. No joke, I am seriously not lying, within seconds a message pops up in my inbox from a man. I allow the conversation to begin and now I've been chatting with him nonstop for 1 week so far. But in one week I'm starting to realize personal things that I don't like about him. For starters, I thought he was opening up to me specifically but now I think he might just be an open book and talk a lot to everyone too ( I don't like guys who have big mouths), he hasn't been asking any questions to get to know me! He asked one personal question, which I didn't mind, and I got a little bit vulnerable for him and he instantly changed the topic and started talking about himself again. I also think he has such a super busy lifestyle that he'd get bored of me. Lastly I'm not even attracted to him physically, or sexually. I was really banking on having a strong emotional connection to spark my attraction to him. I also don't want to turn him down or ghost him because my horoscope literally said this was the man for me and the way he approached me very shortly after I read that horoscope felt like divine timing. It's not feeling like my other relationships in the past, it's much more hard to navigate.
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talking phase? zoomers are fricking r-slurs, go meet somewhere and eat food in front of each other and hold a conversation, that's the talking phase
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But what if the person is boring and you waste 1h of your life? That's 1 tv episode you missed!
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That's why you carry an emotional support Funko Pop. When the conversation starts getting boring you can bring it out and play with it to comfort yourself.
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Are you supposed to play with Funko Pops? I thought you were just meant to buy them and put them on the shelf. Do they even articulate?
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Aren't they bobbleheads? You can bobble the head.
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You need to buy one for the shelf and one for personal use
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One for the shelf one for the jar
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That's a whole hour of watching someone stream Minion Run on TikTok!
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Just pull up family guy on your phone dumbass
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In my online dating days I'd never go more than ten messages without locking in some kind of meetup, which would be as soon as possible, and generally casual. “Let's get a coffee.” “Let's get a cocktail tonight,” whatever.
Then you can do all that chat over a coffee or something in an hour and get out of there if she's boring/doesn't match her photo/doesn't seem slutty enough. If it's good you can arrange a proper date for another time; if it's not then you move onto the next.
If two weeks of Yahoo Chatting someone is what online dating has become, I don't know how it can possibly function.
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I guarantee that if tinder analysed their data, this would still hold true - 95% of dates are arranged after a few messages. Long convos only happen out of boredom/desperation.
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In my boomer times we talked on AOL Instant Messenger before we went on a date even if we knew each other irl.
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