Is it "ok" for you to be angry?! You should be! This is absurd behavior from someone that is supposed to be your partner. That it is apparently a patterned behavior is insane.
Just throw the whole man out.
Two paragraphs, all the knowledge you have about this guy is two paragraphs.
And yet it says so much that it's more than enough.
he's jerking off to other women to get revenge on you. mentally cheating to get back at you, or watching violent porn imagining he's hurting you...
this will lead to him cheating for real or getting violent next time he gets even more angry.
why would he want to train his mind to associate anger and animosity towards you with s*x?
dump his butt.
"oh it's just porn and masturbation he's allowed to self-soothe" nah they know what they're doing to our esteem, when they angrily jerk it like a chimp, glaring at us, teaching us to never make them mad again.
Decline s*x? Best believe he'll start liking women on instagram who look nothing like you as punishment.
He's not horny, he's angry.
He's not angry in general, he's angry AT YOU.
Fricking wild behavior.
Who hurt you.
Also, a plot twist: turns out OP's a whore.
Now I'm thinking these two are a perfect match, they totally deserve each other.
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