I (23F) feel like I've lost a valuable friendship because my boyfriend (22M) became close to a friend of mine (22F), and I don't know if it's possible to reconcile the relationship. (self.relationships)

Tl;dr: I moved, and my good friend and boyfriend became good friends. When they become good friends, I felt like I lost one of my emotional supports outside of my relationship, and I don't know how to accept the inevitable shift in my friendship or in my relationship.

UPDATE My (23F) friendship is over because my boyfriend (23M) decided to cut ties with one of my good friends (22F) (self.relationships)

TL;DR: Boyfriend decided that friendship was too inconvenient and strained our relationship so much that he ended the friendship (which he says he didn't take very seriously to begin with), while also thinking that doing so would somehow save my friendship with that person (I asked him specifically not to do that). Instead, she was angry at me and him and ultimately decided to end our friendship completely. Bf and I are both seeking individual therapy because this issue seems to involve something deeper with my insecurities, but also his lack of a serious attitude towards his friendships in general.

FOIDS - NOT EVEN ONCE!!!!!!!!

>post gets 4 upmarseys and 3 comments

>makes an UPDATE post for it

???

Lmao, she wants him outta the house because the therapy sessions are entirely about him.

Not that it matters, if she's kicking him out that regularly and they live together…he has to find somewhere to sleep and it's going to be at her ex roommates place

Being a foid-brained sounds exhausting tbh