Still trying to process the wild conversation I just had with my boyfriend, we have been dating for a month now after I got out from a horrible relationship. This relationship has been far superior for my mental health and he treats me far better in many ways. but today while fooling around while watching a documentary we were talking about how someone married this guy for money and planned to have him killed by an assassin. My boyfriend talked about how this lady never found her husband attractive and it was all a ploy to get money and then he suddenly goes, '' I would never do this to you, I love being with you , even though you are like a 6/10, but I love you, so it doesn't matter''
I was shocked, to me if I am with someone they are endlessly beautiful and attractive to me. I don't rate every inch of them like its a science project, I love them for everything they are, yet for him I am some object that is barely beautiful but I am pleasant to be around for other reasons. I realized this relationship is completely hollow and he will just move on when he tires of me.
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Foids out there really thinking every one of them is God's gift to moidkind
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Shouldn't you're partner think you're a gift from God, at least?
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No, putting your partner on a pedestal leads to issues just like having no appreciation for your partner, not to mention the undue stress it places on your partner to try and maintain some image of divinity. Your partner is a person, with their own faults and positives. The difference between them and everyone else is the promise you've made to them. You shouldn't feel like they're gods gift to earth every day because that's just impossible. They're gonna annoy you, you're gonna argue. They're just a person who liked spending time with you as much you liked spending time with them
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Yeah honestly. Someone calling their long term partner a 6/10 is seriously neurodivergent. That's shitty.
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!incels wouldnt stop smiling for a week if we were called a 4/10
jewish lives matter less than palestinian ones
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Like if a woman said "eh your peepee size isn't the best but I still love you" it still would hurt the guy's confidence. Even if the statement is 100% true. Imo, if you truly love someone, you should try and boost their confidence and avoid talking about things they can't change.
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Looks are a composition of many factors, most of which can be changed (weight, fashion, makeup, hairstyle, skincare etc)
Peepee size, height, hair color (kinda), eye color etc are pretty immutable
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Agree with you there
But also looks are pretty subjective too, so hearing someone you love just thinks you're average would be pretty heartbreaking
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Love is telling someone hard truths, not gassing them up. I pay prostitutes for that
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Everyone rates their girlfriend and that's fine but why the frick would you feel the need to tell them their rating? What positive outcome can you possibly imagine that would result from doing that?
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Detect lies/delusions
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I understand what you mean, it's not even like she asked a stupid question and got a shitty answer, he just dropped being a 6/10 on her head like it's cute
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That's really cruel. My foid is always a 10/10 to me
One of my foid friends even tried to dunk on her looks. Jealous b-word
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I would rather my partner be honest than shower me with "wow you're the most handsome man in the country" level nonsense tbqh.
I would also never date anyone I actually considered 6/10 tho.
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Foids aren't entitled to men stroking their ego.
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Blame moids for that, simping for every last 1/10 has that kinda effect
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It's one thing if you think your partner is a 6. But you are definitely not supposed to say so. I sure as frick don't need a girlfriend bluntly explaining my shortcomings to me.
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