Unable to load image

Mid-30s single foid has tried nothing and is all out of ideas. Why does the dating market suck here?

https://old.reddit.com/r/houston/comments/1c54nf9/trying_to_meet_men_in_their_30s_in_the_wildwhere/

								

								

I'm a 34 y/o woman. Struggling with dating apps and dating in general. I'm trying to put the work in to meet men outside. I am just struggling trying to figure out where y'all are? I've been to HEB, Central Market and Whole Foods, no luck. Tried going out alone to restaurants a couple times and sat at the bar with no luck. Are there certain areas y'all professional men like to hang after work? I'm usually at the gym lol

Following bc I'm curious too. 30F and I go out enough to public spots but too chicken I guess to actually talk to someone. Gym had some cute bro dudes but I'd never approach. I've been approached at HEB on wash ave a couple times, maybe that's the new move? Perhaps pickleball spots?

Wishing you all the best. Same, I go out a lot alone actually. I have heard that women sometimes unknowingly are not open to men approaching them. So I'm gonna try to make an effort to make eye contact and smile more. I go to the HEB in montrose. I'm a resident and figured I'd run into more like minded men there? Idk. Pickleball does sound like a great place!

70
Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

I've been to HEB, Central Market and Whole Foods, no luck.

Am I understanding this correctly that shes trying to pull men at the supermarket?

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

At this rate she might as well try online dating on LinkedIn

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

Foids fantasise about some irl meet cute where she drops her bag of brussel sprouts or sth and some hot guy picks it up for her

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

Manifesting this scene from You

https://i.rdrama.net/images/17132662351290624.webp

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

It would be cute though :marseyhearts:

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

For 1% of women. For 97% it would be a r*pe whistle in the guy's face.

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

:marseydisagree: it depends on whether the guy is cute & charmingly disarming or weird and aggressive.

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

If the guy is cute and charming, he is already married and doing medical rounds for another year before they move to Oregon for a higher salary and start having kids.

Sorry but thems the rules :tayshrug:

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

(the deciding cutoff is how prominent his face bones are)

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

Nah I've made some really uncalibrated and clumsy kinds of passes at women and literally not a single one has ever reacted angrily. I just got rejected but there was never any kind of scene. I don't know why some guys have this idea that it's actually likely that women will call the cops if they make a move.

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

Legacy foid: "Oops I dropped :marseyautismcap: my cabbages :marseyflirt:"

Me: "Goddarn pull yourself :marseykys: together, lady. :handsomechud:"

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

"Meet cute" and "the ick" prove that women are r-slurred.

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

You are more likely to have meet cute in gangbang rather then in whole food

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

Maybe she should try the bus stop?

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

Definitly a higher throughput there Id imagine.

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

Why would you want to date a man that has to take a bus in their late 30s, especially in 'murica?:marseycringe:

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

Not heckin progressive of you comrade, we should ALL be taking the trains!

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

This but unironically. I fantasize about a ons on the Orient Express.

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

Cunnilingus on the Detroit people mover in front of horrified bystanders. Then I'll take you out for crack and fries

Best I can do

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

What bus in America can you fantasize as the orient express? At that processing level of imagination, I guess you can turn a homeless guy into a dashing detective though.

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

>taking the trains

>What bus

Dramatards demonstrating their top tier reading comprehension, as always.

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

When men are cruising for chicks, they'll go to Target, not Whole Foods.

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

In fairness HEB and Central Market are really good grocery stores. At least she has taste.

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

Absolutely nothing wrong with that, the problem is that most guys are either too shy to make an approach at the supermarket or think that it's a bad thing to do for some reason.

Jump in the discussion.

No email address required.

Link copied to clipboard
Action successful!
Error, please refresh the page and try again.