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Mid-30s single foid has tried nothing and is all out of ideas. Why does the dating market suck here?

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I'm a 34 y/o woman. Struggling with dating apps and dating in general. I'm trying to put the work in to meet men outside. I am just struggling trying to figure out where y'all are? I've been to HEB, Central Market and Whole Foods, no luck. Tried going out alone to restaurants a couple times and sat at the bar with no luck. Are there certain areas y'all professional men like to hang after work? I'm usually at the gym lol

Following bc I'm curious too. 30F and I go out enough to public spots but too chicken I guess to actually talk to someone. Gym had some cute bro dudes but I'd never approach. I've been approached at HEB on wash ave a couple times, maybe that's the new move? Perhaps pickleball spots?

Wishing you all the best. Same, I go out a lot alone actually. I have heard that women sometimes unknowingly are not open to men approaching them. So I'm gonna try to make an effort to make eye contact and smile more. I go to the HEB in montrose. I'm a resident and figured I'd run into more like minded men there? Idk. Pickleball does sound like a great place!

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As a man (male) in Texas (where HEB exists): it is borderline unthinkable to approach a woman at the grocery. The feminist screeching has trained us against it. She would have to be at least a 8/10 which in Texas is like a bong 32/10 for attractiveness.

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Any person I'd like to talk to heb is going to be hot and taken. It's never even crossed my mind that foids would fantasize about this.

You just chat up random girls and ask benign questions about carrots and cat food. Then if things are going well slide in a “what does your bf drink in beers, I need a rec.”

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As if women won't see right through that

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They'll only see through it if you're not attractive.

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You know you are allowed small lies in your social interactions when breaking the ice?

If the foid is interested, she will laugh and say she is single, which gives you the okay to ask for her number or a date. If she isn't she will say something else and you end the conversation.

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When I go grocery shopping I just want to get the shit I need and get out as quick as possible. I'm not paying attention to anyone around me. The only thing on my mind each time I enter the store is praying they haven't fricking rearranged everything again.

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Any one that is bangable at heb is taken

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