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He just... didn't make me feel loved. He was nice enough, but wouldn't really hold my hand in public or show much affection, even when we hung out with friends that were also couples. He was... weak, it was easy to make him cry. I think men should show emotion but he was particularly sensitive. He had no spine, he was everyone's doormat. He couldn't say no. We got a house together and I loved that house. But I felt like a ghost in my own home, a roommate, a means to an end. For a long time, I regretted it. I left in pursuit of love and I met Satan incarnate - I paid my karmic debt many times over with him and also being a nurse in an effing pandemic. Anyway, now I'm in the best relationship I've ever had, I'm taken care of, I love and feel loved. My only complaint is he snores sometimes and sometimes doesn't have tact, and I'm happy to have complaints haha - no one can be too perfect right? But he checks all the boxes. I spent like, the last decade manifesting this saint of a man. It was worth it. I wouldn't change a thing.

this is why you never show emotion in front of a woman, she will find a way to use it against you

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He just... didn't make me feel loved. He was nice enough, but wouldn't really hold my hand in public or show much affection, even when we hung out with friends that were also couples. He was... weak

I'm betting she was fat and he was ashamed to be with her, but he also didn't want to be alone and didn't think he could do any better.

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>This is the best a man can hope for if he didn't meet his wife before covid

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The body positivity movement is annoying because it tells women/people "everyone is beautiful in their own way! love your body! etc." when, as people like myself know, not everyone is beautiful and we need to accept that that's ok. We need to stop emphasizing the importance of beauty or that everyone has it somehow. Beauty is not like strength, intelligence, empathy, or courage. It serves no purpose and the only benefit of it is it makes people (unfairly) biased in your favor, because you are "easy on the eyes" or whatever. The body positivity movement needs to be more about "stop expecting women to be visually appealing for your pleasure/entertainment, there's more to life and to people than just appearance" than that " every1 is beautiful!!11 uwu" nonesense.

And

I have the occasional migraine so my doctor switched me to the mini-pill recently because of the stroke risk. I have naturally normal/low blood pressure (even despite taking a different medication that can raise BP), and switching to the mini-pill seems to have made my BP dangerously low now. I get dizzy whenever I stand up and I nearly black out at least once a day, which to me feels a lot more dangerous than whatever 0.00012% chance of stroke that goes up by 50% to a whopping 0.00018% if I take regular BC pills. Fortunately I havent passed out yet but only because I know the trick to clench my muscles to stop the black-out process, but there's still some close calls.

All this has me wanting to just not be on BC because my doc wont want to put me back on the regular pill due to the contraindication, but I dont want an implant and would probably vomit to death from getting an IUD. Its scary to think but sadly true there might be some anti-BC propaganda movement, but some of us are just fed up with our limited shitty options and what BC does to us.

But I cant wrap my head around advocating against BC as a whole.. our options already suck, what good is getting rid of ALL of them going to do? We should advocate for MORE and BETTER forms of BC.

Body positive stuff and shitload of meds.

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Lizzo or ozempic

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