I have a newfound hate for “squirt is pee.”

I'm non-binary, they/them, and happen to have an innie. I've squirted a little bit in the past, but recently had the whole “shit I REALLY shoulda put down a towel” experience. It was clear with a little white, a little thick, and didn't smell like anything like anything I've ever encountered.

It was 100% not pee. So now I have a newfound rage for people insisting it's pee. I know what came out of my body, it was a lot, and I had just peed before engaging. If it was pee, why was it nothing like pee?? I wouldn't care if it was, it's involuntary, the thing is it wasn't.

Compound that with the fact that if I say, “My squirt definitely wasn't,” I'm 99% likely to be misgendered.

I hate that our bodies are so fricking taboo and yet we can't even be the authority on them.

pro-pee

anti-pee

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