does this mean i pass (story inside)

the sun is finally out and the weather is nice. i was playing ultimate frisbee with a group of mostly guys i didn't really know (friend's frat), i suck at sportsball but i was trying my best. sidenote, it was shirts v skins and all of the frat boys were really hot, like they were all perfect bods (twunks) and they didnt have their shirts on (soo hot!!). anyways i was trying to catch the frisbee and some guy on the opposing team slapped it down right before i was going to catch it. but then he started apologizing to me that he was being too rough and tried to had the frisbee back to me and i was like wtf??? does this mean i pass since he was trying to coddle me like a cis woman?