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FYI: I'm 19 and boymodding and nobody knows that im trans besides my 2 work besties.

She's pushing 30 and is very inappropriate (mind you, we work in hospitality) and is very fricking annoying.

⁠She's very over sexual, she keeps grinding on me and slapping my butt in front of everyone. She keeps yelling PEEPEE and keeps moaning all over the place and keeps calling me her husband….

⁠She's a pick me butt b-word. She keeps touching my belly and tells me how squishy it is in comparison to hers, she keeps telling everyone how weak she is and refuses to cary anything thats a bit heavy, and keeps telling my cis work bestie how big her arms are and how they're sooo much bigger than hers. And when ever I'm bringing out the trash she jumps up on the cart and tells me to push her since she's "so light" and keeps flexing with all the plastic surgeries she's had ( which, pop off queen) but then you're not the one to call anyone ugly when you're out here flexing with your 5th nose.

⁠She lets me do all the heavy stuff because I'm "a man" and when I told her why should I do it maybe I'm a woman too (to test the waters) she replied with " look at your body, you could never be a woman" which really hurt me.

⁠I Know what I'm about to say is gonna sound really fricked up because we as trans women are not a monolith, but cis ppl don't know that and assume we're all the same, and I hate how she's representing us. I keep defending her whenever people talk shit about her or misgender her, but she's the epitome of what cis ppl think a trans woman is, and it annoys the frick out of me, because I just want to yell "WERE NOT ALL LIKE THIS I PROMISE" because I feel like misrepresentation is the last thing we need in this current moment.

I need help how can I deal with her and not pull a Blair white.

Thank you x

I gave a 50rs note to this transgender in the train and asked her to return 40 back. I usually give 10rs to them whenever I travel so I thought that's the norm. She hands back 30 rs change. When asked for 40 she took back the 30rs from me and started walking. I stopped her and asked for my money and she said she wont give back any money now. She said everyone is giving 20rs ( I didnt notice) and that she was happily giving me 30 rs back (my own money) and that I should've accepted it. I had to literally beg her for my own money, and she finally returned me the same 30rs... and also said "udaas kyu ho rha hai ye le 30rs." ("Why sad take this 30rs").

I'm honestly sick of these people. Would rather give the same or even more amount to someone needy rather than these scamsters.

Frick them seriously

Bro you were lucky…in other cases some people are demanding for 100rs

You met the most polite transgender in hyd ig.

Are you sure it's "HER"! 90% of this is a scam! "HE" becomes "SHE" and scams

!transphobes

Unrelated but yesterday around 8:00 pm, I'm driving my Kia Seltos (30/F) in Vanasthalipuram and this transgender couple on the scooty were trying to overtake me from the left for at least a kilo meter. But, they were not getting the space to overtake me coz there were other cars, two wheelers etc. parked on the left side of the road, street vendors, etc. When they finally got their way, the pillion transgender person yelled at me "EYY NEEKU DRIVING OCCHA?" (DO YOU KNOW HOW TO DRIVE) and just then their scooty went and hit an auto that was coming from a perpendicular lane.

WARNING: EXTREMELY BORING AND PERSONAL BLOGPOST AHEAD, I HIGHLY SUGGEST YOU DO NOT READ IT UNLESS YOU'RE A OR MY FRIEND. THANK YOU.

i debated whether or not to make this post but ultimately decided i should lay out my reasons for (attempting) to quit using the site again, if only to get one last good dose of attention, maybe get some finality, and exist as a cautionary tale. this is not a "frick you userbase" post or insistence for the administration to do anything about the sites content or userbase, simply my logic for why i think i personally should stop using it. i would also generally advise other trans people to avoid the site as well but i know plenty of people who do get something out of reading chud shitholes (seriously i see so many ovarit/kf screenshots on tttt reddit its insane).

anyway i have the big depression. i'm not the most suicidal i've ever been and i'm not considering self harm but i would describe my mental state as seriously fricked up bros. this means more bedrotting, more binge eating, more lapses in executive function, more isolation. i've also for the first time in my short 27 year timespan on this earth actually dug more into these feelings and analyzed them, though this has not lead to any great understanding or an "a-ha" moment on my part. at best it's made me relate more to the stereotypical descriptions of depression and dysphoria. i'm not gonna go too deep into that because its embarrassing tbh. in the past i haven't really considered rdrama to be a major factor in this. a contributor to be sure but i always thought i got more out of it than it took for me. maybe that was delusion or maybe i was just better at tanking the damage in the past. maybe i just took enough and longer breaks and i was never cut out for using the site for an extended period of time. idk. here's some conjecture for why i think its particularly bad for me now:

1) half the country despises my existence and while this fact has always been true it hasn't been as relevant. this leads to me being inundated with a double dose of hatred shoved into my face, first when i see the news elsewhere and again when i browse rdrama. and yes i know nothing ever happens and im being hysterical and yadda yadda yadda. nobody can take my HRT away from me, diy exists. nobody (besides immigrants) is going to be put into camps, things will get better it'll just take time. doesn't mean it's not scary. should i be scared boymoding in a red state? probably not but seeing a news article about kim reynolds trying to legally declare me subhuman certainly isn't fricking helping me not be scared.

2) rdrama has just continued to go on a downward spiral? being someone who started using 4chan at age 12 in 2010 and was constantly called out for being a newstrag, i never really bought into "communities degrade over time" rhetoric. mainly because people are always saying shit is getting worse and i was either too dumb to recognize it or part of the problem myself in the past. but anyway. its definitely a thing with rdrama. a lot of users i liked or at least recognized as someone worth my time have been banned or left the site. and the people coming in to replace them are not the best and brightest. its just. i really really don't care if youre a chud. like yes seeing your ignorant opinions about certain topics does tend to make me flare up with angst, but i really try to not take it too seriously and just have a fun time. it just feels like people aren't coming here to have a fun time or shoot the shit about hobbies or do a little casual reddit trolling. it feels like they're coming here to make themselves and everyone around them miserable.

3) i have better social avenues elsewhere. i'm not talking about tttt because i don't think i'll ever feel like i fit in there, but i do have a friend now who i feel like is on a similar wavelength to me. and interacting with that person has made me realize i have so much more me to express than i am capable of doing on rdrama. its a rather dire comparison that has made me realize more and more how fricking stupid i am for putting up with this for so long. i said it the other day, lonely people tend to act deranged, and it turns out having your sole social outlet be a website full of people that hate you is pretty fricking deranged. being surrounded by people that hate me has been my modus operandi for a long time (much longer than i've been on rdrama), and only now am i realizing how fricked up that is. i'm not conceited enough to say i'm finally growing up, but i do think this time is a little bit different. idk we'll see i guess lmao

thats that. i'll respond to comments here but after that im outie 5k, gonna log out everywhere and scramble my password again. i once again do not know how to end this post

!cuteandvalid

!cuteandvalid

I hate them sm.

Problem: the face of the modern day train movement is a failure in both messaging and substance. Most people can't relate to trains at all and their political platform makes no sense to them. Their most prominent figures are inscrutable, to say the least.

However, even those of us with slight chud leanings are aware there are trains who just want to lead their lives without being a nuisance to the general public, who won't put you in a headlock for misgendering them, and are currently the victims of political crossfire.

Plan of action: trains need an engaging, non sexual, NON POLITICAL tv series where they're interacting with normal people much like the makeover show Queer Eye For the Straight Guy, which—along with the sitcom Will & Grace—was a groundbreaking show for its time. Homosexual men have intuitively understood what kind of media presence would gain them mainstream acceptance: be nonpolitical, be attractive, be non threatening, be funny.

Why haven't transpeople pursued the same?

Trains need a popular normie show where they don't browbeat people about gender ideology. Where they don't bring up the issues of bathrooms, sports, or children. Where they don't cry about transphobia. And OF VITAL IMPORTANCE: where they cast only non threatening, charismatic, and attractive trains.

Just pulling these examples from the top of transtimelines, they need to cast trains that look like this:

https://old.reddit.com/r/transtimelines/comments/1ida40i/1821_11_mo_to_33_mo/

Or this:

https://old.reddit.com/r/transtimelines/comments/19cm73x/i_still_have_the_jumpsuit/

Or this:

https://old.reddit.com/r/transtimelines/comments/1elh10m/i_started_hrt_at_18_and_ffs_at_19_and_im_so_happy/

Gather attractive and entertaining trains, preferably with a good sense of humor, and make a show where they help regular men and women with different struggles. Put their competence, helpfulness, and amicability on display. It's important to show them displaying skills and helping people normies can identify with.

What sort of struggles could trains help with specifically? Not quite sure, but It might be something like helping normies blend into an unfamiliar situation or territory. Here's a transman giving other transmen advice on how to fit into a male dominated workplace…such advice could easily be given to a struggling spergy or effeminate man as well:

https://tiktok.com/@thegravelbro/video/7319501409366314286

Remember, the vital thing is to remove all politics and sexuality from such a show. Most people associate transpeople as being gratingly political (or perverted) because this is the essence of their main, and probably only interactions with trains online.

>be me, transbian disaster in hon phase of HRT

>still boymoding at work because "customer-facing professionalism"

>download Taimi for "community connection" (read: desperate for validation)

>match with cute theyfab who lists hobbies as "dismantling cisheteropatriarchy"

>their opener: "wow ur voice is goals for a pre-everything egg like me 😳"

>aww.shit.jpg, now I'm free gender therapist again

>meanwhile, TERF lurker in DMs: "you'll never be a real woman sweetie <3"

>reply with "new copypasta, thx bestie ❤️" and block

>chasers start sliding: "love girldick uwu"

>send them Wikipedia link to "paraphilic infantilism" and watch them seethe

>finally meet up with theyfab at Starbucks

>they show up wearing 17 pronoun pins and binder with cartoon frogs

>immediately start trauma-dumping about "cisnormative dental receptionists"

>mfw realizing I've become the Elder Gay™ mentoring babyqueers

>split a gluten-free brownie, get called "valid" six times

>go home, cry into Blahaj, check /r/transgendercirclejerk

>still cis tho

>take E shot

>attracted to men, lust for their smell, their peepee, their muscles, want to be dominated

>develop the hardest crushes I've ever had

>few days later E starts to wear off

>lose crushes

>become attracted to women, develop crushes on them instead

>take E shot

>find myself disgusted for ever thinking women were beautiful

>into men again

>rinse, repeat

This just repeats over and over every week, how am I supposed to cope with this?

!cuteandvalid !cuteandinvalid !lgbt

one of the craziest parts about being on estrogen for a while is confirming the fact that yes, women can smell when you've jacked off recently

— jackie 🇵🇸 (@jackiecore666) January 22, 2025

Now that the great big Orange Cheeto is in office, I want to provide mutual aid to all the at risk trans cuties around america.

What should I stock up my house with to help support their needs?

I already have picked up more blahaj from ikea, jars of pickles, and I have ordered YZY gap sweatshirts.

!cuteandvalid - discuss.

Just for example:

Fine I'll make it a pic pic.twitter.com/vXnKXbVmHn

— 🦊Ciriattle, J.D.🦊 (@Ciriattle) January 21, 2025

Also the irony of calling out "Gooner4fem" when they are literally a gooner4fem xirself

I don't think I can imagine anything less appealing than this pic.twitter.com/alsiOYWjPa

— 🦊Ciriattle, J.D.🦊 (@Ciriattle) January 18, 2025

Thread: https://boards.4chan.org/lgbt/thread/38654033

!cuteandvalid !cuteandinvalid

this is the realest greentext in existence. i would bet physical AND digital currency that this story 100% actually happened exactly as described. anyway im back hi

!cuteandvalid !cuteandinvalid !neurodivergents