AITA for telling my trans coworker she doesn’t really understand me?

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Me 26F, my coworker 29MTF let call her jessica, to make this short i was at work during my period and i was complaining to the girls about my cramps and how awful they were.

Jessica interrupted me saying “ girl i understand your pain, did you take paracetamol?”, i got mad to be honest given that she already know i went to the ER once to take morphine due to my period cramps > and i felt she reduct how awful my pain was.

I told her no you don’t, because you don’t have a uteruss that shed every month nor ovariess to cause a sudden change in your hormone levels.

She got mad and told me that i’m an AS for hurting her and she was just trying to help.

>So many comments saying nta, and that he can't know and it's okay for her to be upset but she could have been nicer and should apologize for hurting his feelings "You could have been nicer" is the last line of defense when men are forced to concede the argument to women.

There's plenty of things she can absolutely experience that can be considered feminine or part of womanhood given that she is female. Trans women may not be able to menstruate but they still get all the same other PMS and period symptoms that cis women get. Bloating, cramping, period poops, wonky moods, hormone swings.... All of it.

Not at all, no. The chemical cocktail youre pumping yourself with has nothing in common with a woman's hormone cycle. It's not even close to a hormonal cycle, so I'm not shocked that it will make you feel sick. The height of gaslighting and misogyny is this made-up TiM fantasy. It's also the simplest thing to argue against. Following hysterectomies and placement on estrogen replacement treatment, hundreds of thousands (maybe even millions?) of women do not continue to experience period discomfort and symptoms. Why? because they have no uterus! This alone shows how every single TiM who has ever claimed to have a "period" is lying and shows how it's just a messed up lie based on a fetishstic desire.

>The transwoman commenting says it would also be completely inappropriate for a ciswoman "who never experienced a period" to say this to her also. What does that even mean, do you know what a ciswoman whose never experienced a period is? Yeah, I thought so.

Looks like the mods weren't happy with people siding with the woman and jannied the post.