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I'm(F25) pregnant but he's(M31) really happy with someone else.

We were together for 3 years and broke up 3 years ago. It was a really good relationship and I was very happy with him throughout the whole thing, but we wanted two completely different things. He wanted things that people his age group wanted, and I wanted things that people my age group wanted. It was sad, but we had to break up.

He moved on and started dating his now-fiancee. We see each other once in a while because of our friends, but don't really make conversation. Around 3 months ago a mutual friend had a party and he was there without her and I decided to talk to him because he seemed down. He explained that him and his girlfriend (they were just dating at this time) had problems about cheating and had broken up.

After our friends party, we were still talking when we went back to my place. I didn't see it leading to s*x, but it did. We had s*x a total of 4 times. We were plastered the first time, sober the other times. It was in a span of a week. We didn't continue anything because the same reasons still stood. He wanted that white picket fence life and I didn't so we stopped before anything got serious.

I was 10 weeks when I found out. I didn't immediately know what I was going to do so I didn't tell anyone, but after thinking about it, I've decided to keep the baby. I know, I spent years saying this isn't what I wanted, but actually being placed in this position changed things. Only 2 other ppl know. I'm currently 13 weeks. I'm not sure when they got back together, but she posted that they got engaged a few days ago. This just makes me feel 110% worse. I know I need to tell him, but I feel bad telling him. How do I?

She’s delusional about him & no one can convince her otherwise

Tell him. He made the choice to have unprotected s*x, and now he has to step up and take responsibility for that.

S*x isn't a game.

True that

Tell her. She made the choice to have unprotected s*x, and now she has to step up and take responsibility for that.

S*x isn't a game.

Wtf !