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They post about how waterfalls are bad. They articulate the many flaws of waterfalls. They cheer when another person comes up with a particularly apt criticism of the nature of the waterfall.
The waterfall is a process of nature. If you are living in a fantasy world you might be surprised to find that in the real world you can't climb up a waterfall, there's just too much water. So that's what these people complain about is just how hard it is to climb up a waterfall. They spend all of their time criticizing a waterfall for being what it fundamentally is.
Women and men are both bizarrely impotent insane creatures, but if you spend all of your time bitter about a natural creature throwing literal shit you should maybe grow up.
Like I like this place, but I'm too old to really be interested in this shit. Men go through a period of being online and bitter at the fact that surprise the woman was a woman. You must abide them their faults, for their abide yours.
And like it's great that so many of you are still lingering in this period, but you don't want to be the people who stay in that period for the rest of their lives.
Enjoy the waterfall. Appreciate the waterfall.
Don't drown in it, don't complain endlessly about nearly drowning in it, just because your expectation of the world didn't line up to the reality.
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Porn websites (which are almost all owned and operated by one large conglomerate corporation) perpetuates that approach / attitude / terminology / culture, by using the term "trap" as titles / tags / labels on porn in which transgender people -- especially transgender women -- feature.
The phenomenon is simply Objectification / Fetishisation.
When women are Objectified and Fetishised, people who participate in that culture are more likely to use violence against women. That's true for cisgender women and transgender women.
There's a large "machismo" patriarchal culture that considers women to be property of men, and considers homosexuality to be worthy of execution, and considers trans women to be simply homosexual men.
There's plenty of people in those cultures who have attraction to trans women -- but who cannot express that openly or publicly.
So they objectify and fetishise trans women in private, via pornography -- without meaningfully interacting with us.
In my opinion, all pornography (as opposed to erotica!) is abnormal, because all pornography perpetuates a culture of objectification, fetishisation, and violence against women. When those abnormal characteristics are comorbid with someone's routine sexual life, they become habitual, and that produces habitual dysfunction.
I did mention as opposed to erotica -- there are cultures that produce erotica that brings human beings together and promotes treating people as human beings with moral autonomy and promotes free human sexual expression.
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