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LiterallyShaking brit/bong TER, drop the F  11mo ago (reddit.com) Edited 11mo ago 3,047 thread views #173244

MensLib discover that respecting women results in a dry peepee, spill red pills all over the place

https://old.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/13ov3wh/spare_a_kind_thought_for_the_polite_horny_teen_boy/jl6ecvw?sort=controversial

This is who calls you an incel on the internet:

Yeah, some boys/men will go too far into other direction and be terrified of interacting with women in any romantic or sexual context. It is understandable, but boy did I miss some opportunities because of that mindset.

I'm a grown-butt man, considered friendly, trustworthy and outgoing but I'm still struggling with this. Do you have any advice on how to reach a good balance?

I'm nearing 30. I've internalized the "leave women alone at all times" and "men are trash" rhetoric so hard that I almost consider myself a burden to them simply by existing. I've gone out of my way to minimize interactions with women because I've catastrophized that my mere presence is bothersome.

Just wanted to say this article pretty neatly describes my teenage years, and that behavior hasn’t really left. Sure makes thing difficult… it’s hard to explain when people say things like “just ask them out” or “you need to get….” You can imagine the words, but in any case, there’s no real guide to getting out of this space.

Just the idea of asking someone out in real life makes me cringe.

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The polite, horny teen boy is the one who truly, genuinely learned and internalized lessons about gender equality and care for the vulnerable and the siblinghood of mankind.

Over the years, I’ve learned that women are bombarded with attention from men who didn’t learn those lessons, who are impolite and unkind and push boundaries.

I’ve also learned that, by god, there are many many boys and men for whom those things are so unthinkable that they will too-actively manage their own selves to avoid even the possibility of coming across like The Other Guys.

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Likely medicated too

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