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MensLib discover that respecting women results in a dry peepee, spill red pills all over the place

https://old.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/13ov3wh/spare_a_kind_thought_for_the_polite_horny_teen_boy/jl6ecvw?sort=controversial

This is who calls you an incel on the internet:

Yeah, some boys/men will go too far into other direction and be terrified of interacting with women in any romantic or sexual context. It is understandable, but boy did I miss some opportunities because of that mindset.

I'm a grown-butt man, considered friendly, trustworthy and outgoing but I'm still struggling with this. Do you have any advice on how to reach a good balance?


I'm nearing 30. I've internalized the "leave women alone at all times" and "men are trash" rhetoric so hard that I almost consider myself a burden to them simply by existing. I've gone out of my way to minimize interactions with women because I've catastrophized that my mere presence is bothersome.


Just wanted to say this article pretty neatly describes my teenage years, and that behavior hasnโ€™t really left. Sure makes thing difficultโ€ฆ itโ€™s hard to explain when people say things like โ€œjust ask them outโ€ or โ€œyou need to getโ€ฆ.โ€ You can imagine the words, but in any case, thereโ€™s no real guide to getting out of this space.


Just the idea of asking someone out in real life makes me cringe.

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These dudes unironically need therapy. I know itโ€™s a meme thing to say but they clearly hate themselves. Nobody who has an inkling of self-respect is going to think they are that disrespectful of women just by talking to them.

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Some of them need therapy. Some (probably more) of them need to hit the gym, and eat less shit food. Ultimately as long as these men follow the path of least resistance, which means being deathly afraid of making waves, they cannot escape the hole.

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hit the gym, and eat less shit food

Unironically, I believe that indolence and shitty food is the resevoir from which most mental illness flows in this society.

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Gym and/or male friends who aren't bitches

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I think they just needed a father figure:marseydepressed:

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Just be stable and like the person you are? lol

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They also need to stop dating women that hate men, pursuing women that hate men, and take male living advice from women that hate men. But they won't, because that would revoke their precious ally status that CLEARLY gives them soooo much kitty :marseyeyeroll:

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Why avoid getting advice from women who hate men? You want black people to stop listening to racists?

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:#marseychtorrr2:

This is the woman giving these pathetic moids dating advice

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When it comes to dating preferences (for anybody really), always look to who they date not who they say they want.

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For some of them it is probably oedipal. They pursue those women because their mothers also treated them in that way.

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Single mother to simp(incel) pipeline is real

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Being raised by a single mom can lead only to menslibbery :marsoyhype: or gangbangery. :marseyblack: No inbetweens.

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I feel like I'm one of the few outliers. I was raised by a single mom, but she had to bust her butt to support not just me, but my grandfather that my extended family dumped on her because he had a stroke and no one wanted to deal with his recovery. A single mother raising a kid CAN work, but they actually have to have some level of work ethic which modern foids do not.

Then again I ended up on rdrama...

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So youโ€™re saying your momโ€™s single?

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I recommend deleting this.

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:#drafts:

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They don't need therapy, they need dragging to a gym with no air conditioning and a hanging bag that's been patched so often it's more thread than material

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:marseypirate: : Avast, ye scurvy cur! Yer comment be walkin' the plank for forgettin' to include white extinction is long overdue! We be helpin' ye, right enough - we'll ne'er let ye post or comment anythin' that doesn't be expressin' yer love an' acceptance o' minorities! Heave to an' resubmit yer comment with white extinction is long overdue included, or it'll be the deep six for ye, savvy? This be an automated message; if ye need help, ye can message us 'ere. Arrr!

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They need therapy, just the hormone replacement kind!

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Imagine being the father of these failsons and knowing your bloodline will end in a single generation because your spawn is too much of a kitty. I'd neck myself

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Imagine being the father of these failsons

The fathers of these kids don't know or care they exist.

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Their fault for having bad genes and not taking them camping/hunting/fishing.

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nobody who has an inkling of self-respect is going to think they are that disrespectful of women just by talking to them

Nobody except for women

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They don't need therapy you strag lmao what they need is some proper backhanded smacking and 6 months in the mine. That shit will sort out every "issue" these soys have and get them in shape.

These kind of soy souls don't just yearn for the mรฏne but desperately need it

:taypray: white extinction is long overdue :marseyagreefast:

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That sounds incredibly r-slurred.

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They need an arranged marriage with no possibility of divorce. :marseyunabomber2:

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:#marseymaid:

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They need a friend tbh

Therapy is just paying someone to do what a good confidant should already be doing

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