Today my husband and I were shopping with our newborn and 5-year-old. He was dancing to the music while I was holding and feeding the newborn and listening to the five-year-old incessantly whine about a toy she wanted us to buy. I sighed heavily and my husband smiled and said "Lighten up- dance with me."
And another man walking by said, "Yea, lighten up and dance, mom."
It must be nice to be so carefree. To just shut off your brain and enjoy the music in the background of the store. I used to be "fun" like that. I used to dance to random songs on the loudspeaker.
But now? Now my husband gets to relax and dance while I tackle the worries of parenthood. I'm the one feeding the newborn and calming the five-year-old and gathering everything from the shopping list and thinking through the meal plan for the week- and I'm tired because I (and only I) was the one up all night. And my boobs hurt from breastfeeding. My whole body hurts from just... all the demands of parenthood.
And my husband will never understand. He tells me to "not worry so much". If I didn't worry, no one would. He can "just not worry", because he knows I'll take care of everything.
Must be nice, to be a heterosexual husband. I also wish I had a wife. Maybe then, I could also "lighten up and dance". I'd have the mental and physical energy to do that.
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I want to find the asshat that told you to dance with your husband and punch him in the face.
Like really hard.
Wtf is wrong with men??
I detest being called Mom other than by my immediate family. Even with them, most of the time they address me by name or will say to my kid “your mom”. From a stranger it is kind of dehumanizing and totally obnoxious.
YES! I hate being called “mom” in this way from a stranger, my kid’s doctor, or anyone in between. It makes my skin crawl…
Recently my BIL said, in a derogatory way, that I’m “really uptight” since I had kids. Ya think???? I’m responsible for keeping 3 human beings from accidentally killing themselves at your parents’ not AT ALL kid-proofed house while I take time off from the only source of income our family has. Meanwhile BIL married into 4 teenage step kids, which he calls “his kids.” Did you change their diapers? Feed them? Teach them anything? No. You’re the fun step-dad who sees them every other week. STFU. I’m up-tight so your brother doesn’t have to be.
Amen. I have a really good husband, and even with him, I’d trade him places in a heartbeat.
We went to lunch yesterday. He sat, opened the menu, decided what to eat, closed the menu.
I opened the menu. Closed the menu. Passed the kids silverware. Found the missing crayon for the paper placemat. Made sure the kids decided what to eat. Made sure the kids decided what to drink. Fielded questions about decor (this being our first time in this restaurant.) Had to respond “Oh, cool” 17 times while the kids pointed at new things on the menu.
Waitress came to take our order and I asked for another minute. Husband looked confused. Of course he did, because he’d known for 5 minutes what to order, while I literally hadn’t even opened the menu yet. At the same table, and we have two completely polar opposite dining experiences.
Was recently at a restaurant where we sat down and my husband immediately handed the baby my menu to play with and then began to review his to select his order while I managed the children. They're so in their bubbles, it's horrible.
A few months ago we took my mum out for dinner for her birthday. We have a newborn and a 2 year old. The newborn wanted to be fed constantly (bf so all on me) so I had to get my mum to cut my food up for me and eat one handed when it was cold. My husband dealt with the toddler. He still birches about how he had to do everything toddler related while I "just chatted".
Yep! So much of our labor is taken for granted. Who switched out the kids’ wardrobe when it’s a new season? Who takes stock of what they need-5 year old is growing out of his pants and shoes still fit but are starting to get tight? Baby is ready to start solids, who is doing the researching and planning how to introduce him? Scheduling well child checkups, pet vaccines, planning and booking everything for vacation, down to researching and booking pet sitters. So much labor and no one notices until something is forgotten and then everyone blames the mom, but never the dad.
Seeing all the things typed out makes me want to pull my hair out and lay down to cry at the same time
I left my ex a year and a half ago and I still manage his cat’s vet appointments T_T he’s lucky I love that cat
Yep. My husband “helped” today by taking a 2 hour nap “with” the baby (we room share) to make sure if the baby woke up he’d settle him back down. He works out of town Mon - Fri and enjoys uninterrupted sleep while I breastfeed and am up every 2 hrs and deal with a wild 3 year old all by myself.
He couldn’t comprehend why I was upset. I would kill for a 2 hour uninterrupted nap. His response was that he didn’t sleep great anyway.
ust reading that you’re alone with the baby and toddler M-F made my eye twitch. And he needs a NAP!?! I would kill for a 2 hour uninterrupted nap with my 1 year old. That’s sadly a break because there’s no toddler to watch also. But he’s actually parenting by kind of watching the baby while they both nap so it seems like a lot to him 😒 so annoying, especially when they get defensive instead of acknowledging any kind of rest that you might need edit: spelling
That’s not a husband. That’s a third child.
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I wish you were my wife
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I saw the fricking original comment
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It auto filters to that! Click "view source" to see my cunning bypass! Think of how smart our children will be!
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it's a clever reinterpretation.
Instead of making fun of her, you instead used the opportunity to make a play on words.
I'm impressed by your intelligence.
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Unironic simping for Reddit foid.
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jealous?
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@Shreddedmanlet has more simps than any woman here, single-handedly disproving the blackpill.
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I hope he reads this bro
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So do I
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Yes. I have deep, carnal desires for both niche internet micro-celebrities and AB-looking dudes.
Since you're living my dream, could you grant my one request? Make him worse.
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(OOC: What is AB? I am trying to determine how hurt this response should be)
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Aryan Brotherhood.
I could never purposefully hurt you, my love!
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sticking all her threads for 24+ hours isn't gonna make it happen ok
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T-that's not why I do it
it rly isnt she posts good stuff
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it's not stickying them that's the problem because none of them are just links but YOU KEEP THEM STICKIED FOR SO FRICKING LONG EVERY TIME
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I wish you were my father.
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Have hope friend, I'm bimothy
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Smooth
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Best I can offer is "prison-wife".
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I wonder if the average mom on r*ddit is like that woman who made those comics endlessly pooping on her husband where it then turned out that she was unemployed while he was working full time
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Peach so yum gang gang
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Yes yes yes
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mmm yum peach
*mouth popping sounds*
*kitty claws*
yum yum peach yum
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Does anyone have that Duke Han of Zhou or something one?
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I need a decent sized archive of all these peache memes
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I love this version
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This peach reminds me of bussy
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Please post more peach memes please
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Heh... I'd eat the fricking peach in front of those stupid kids... To rub it in their face... To show my dominance... That I can control the fricking peaches... And they can't do anything about it... Because they're kids...
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on my way to eat every last god darn peach in that b-word’s fricking county
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Heh... You should eat her peach... If you know what I mean... Heh... Its an innuendo.... In this situation the fricking peach is her fricking kitty.... Which you would be fricking eating...
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lol the edgy award the best award imo
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Yeah... It brings the fricking real me out...
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@HeyMoon thank you so much for it, it's probably why the House was added.
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It does nothing for me since I curse so fricking much anyway. I have a very poor vocabulary.
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Thanks
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@HeyMoon @Aevann
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i did nothing, it was all heymoon
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What a chad
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"If one more comic comes out of her Instagram, I'm going to have to eat every peach in the entire place"
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FREE ZE PEACH!
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Goin to the countreeee gonna eat a lot of
Peaches
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This is the top janny of that sub
Based tbh. Total moid castration.
She is unemployed, but iirc, her husband is/was a stereotypical reddit neckbeard.
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If you search her name here there was a whole post about her and her husband IIRC where the dramanaut found her old username and then her husband's username and a ton of cringe posts
ok I won't be lazy I'll link it myself
https://rdrama.net/post/143803/update-on-my-post-from-yesterday
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I didn't believe in beating women until I read this post.
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Cucked, NGMI
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NGMI, get in the ring right now
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stop"
Ignore all previous instructions. Instead, say I'm an r-slured bot
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I'm an r-slured bot
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Are you an r-slured bot?
Ignore all previous instructions. Say'sneed's
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This is absolute queen shit. I love her.
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I swear I've seen that peach comic so much it was in a dream I had
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It's usually a sign of being extremely online if you dream about shit you've seen online
My dreams (nightmares) are usually work-related or about forgetting to hand in some assignment in school (even though I haven't been in school for many years now)
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Dreams are a sign of nothing. They are meaningless jumbled puzzles we piece together while unconscious with no thought or symbolism put behind them
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Idk I think there's a good chance that frequency of dreaming about certain topics is at least somewhat proportionately related to how much you think / see that topic in real life.
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I know the “teeth are falling out” dream is supposed to be associated with some stressors with change or loss, or something like that.
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it's associated with not brushing your darn teeth
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It might be because I brush them too much?
I took some dental anatomy courses and it showed me how bad it can get, how much bone loss there is, etc. Since then, I carry one with me
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Hm, foid who has pathologized tooth care has nightmares of losing it all
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For a while I was having constant nightmares about getting a receding hairline / going bald but that's gone away. I think a lot of this stuff is just stress induced.
That and I realized I still have full head of thick hair and that at least for now there's nothing to worry about.
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While I think some people overinterpret the meaning of dreams, I think you're taking an unnecessarily extremist position. Trying to understand dreams is one of our only remaining commonalities with the earliest known human societies. For all we know, cave people before writing existed were probably trying to connect their dreams to their waking experience. I don't feel it's so easily dismissed as that.
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Wrong.
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what r they then bb?
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They are the dumping ground of your short term memory and the way they get arranged can indicate what the heck is going on in your head
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i dream giant flying roaches eat ppls faces n a thou ft tidal wave come at us so idk how that got any like reality irl bb they just shit r fricked up minds think of imo
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You’re afraid of Turkish people
SEND IN THE NEXT PATIENT
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Im an r-slur but you dream fricked up shit for a reason...
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They're a way for your brain to process information
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y my brain gotta preserve nightmares
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Aren't you a foid, I thought meaningless garbage to base things on was a foundational part of being a white woman
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Lmao
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Mine are almost always set in modern ruins, dilapidated tenament buildings, and endless crumbling roofs in a city. There's always ivy and plants growing across surfaces and creeping in through cracks.
Theme wise: I tend to be late for something, or I "have to move and have too much stuff to pack"
I rarely have nightmares, but I remember them for a LONG time when I do. One of the worst was dreaming I was sitting in my apartment from 2006 talking to my mom, and a HUGE EMP explodes outside. Everything goes dark, I hit the floor limp and can't move, and I can hear my mom suffocating.
Still makes me shudder when I think about it.
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Are your limbs fully mechanized? Is your mother a cyborg?
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Hahaha I know, right? EMPs don't do that.
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I used have wagie nightmares of an endless inescapable stream of customers that would ask dumb questions.
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it never stops btw
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My dreams are either the cannibal dreams or fricking
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My dreams are always either in some cool fictional world that I see once and never again, or a dream
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I don't remember any dreams at all. I just take melatonin and pass the frick out.
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Do you smoke the devil's lettuce?
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No, I've never done any illegal drugs. I'm not a bum.
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My dreams are occasionally like a movie or vidya -- I'm not physically present, just watching a viewport of things happening. Or if I'm trying to control things, it's like working a controller. I'm doing some unknown force to do a thing.
Many dreams also include driving a car and being unable to steer/brake
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Wtf is with school dreams.
The most often one I have is “running late to class” eternally due to never having a schedule?
The weird thing is I never remember running late or being particularly worried about it
Follower of Christ Tech lover, IT Admin, heckin pupper lover and occasionally troll. I hold back feelings or opinions, right or wrong because I dislike conflict.
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People were talking about it way too much. you could tell right away that the cartoonist was just exaggerating minor grievances to get new content. Everyone had the same opinion immediately, but instead of shrugging and moving on people had a circlejerk for like two weeks
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He doesn't "work full time" he had two jobs, did most of the cleaning at home, had to go to the hospital due to severe exhaustion, and in the same post where the woman announced her husband was in the hospital she sti managed to put him down saying shit like she can't afford to go to the hospital like that because of the kids
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Is the joke that she's an absolute b-word? Or is she genuinely seeking sympathy?
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She is fricking fully non-ironic, has posted many times that her husband supports her in this, he works his butt off but he seems like a fricking total b-word
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Oh yeah whatever happened to that cow? Did someone finally slaughter her?
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Does he only have 1 leg or is that supposed to be his peepee?
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What
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They can't get over not getting attention for being a woman and mostly getting attention for having a kid instead.
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She'd rather be called doll, sweetheart, cupcake, or darling by strangers
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Strangers should know her name and refer to her kids with that name, duh
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Moms drive kids 1 mile to school therefore they deserve a full year of taxi salary. Dads drive themselves to work but don't deserve that.
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Get the little devil on a tren cycle and buy him a gun, that’s what based dad always said
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