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seems like a healthy attitude towards s*x tbh

if you treat women who have s*x as if they have done something wrong you're gonna have a bad time

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Wrong lol

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Hi. My name is Strange Geologist. I am a former Domestic Violence Intervention Specialist who worked with the Seattle Police Department. I have interviewed and interacted with hundreds of women who were victims of domestic violence and the men who perpetuated it. A common feature of the men in these relationships was open and hostile misogyny. They had unmistakably sexist views and extremely regressive views on gender roles. All of them managed to not only convince women to sleep with them, but to move in with them, marry them, and to bear their children.

What you are suggesting with your comment is disgusting. Women do not have some sort of innate filter that ensures they never date or sleep with misogynists. It is offensive to imply that they do, because when you imply that, it suggests that women who are abused by misogynists choose to be abused. That they knowingly and willingly enter into relationships with misogynists. Being a misogynist does not prevent men from getting laid. It simply does not. If it did, there would be no need for domestic violence intervention specialists.

However many men with social anxiety disorders, neurodivergent spectrum disorders, self-confidence and insecurity issues brought on by domestic abuse, or physical deformities or disability issues, etc. find it extremely difficult to thrive in the romantic market, and may take years longer than their peers to find a sexual partner -- if they ever find a partner. These men are not inherently misogynists, and they deserve empathy and pity, not mockery.

What you are doing is virgin-shaming. Shaming men who fail to thrive sexually by unfairly and absurdly conflating them with misogynists. If you consider yourself a feminist, fricking knock it off. That's not cool. It's not funny. You are only perpetuating toxic masculinity by shaming men for not being able to get laid. Every time you do that, you encourage those around you to think that the measure of a good man is his body count.

Getting laid does not mean you are not a misogynist.

Not getting laid does not mean you are a misogynist.

Stop implying that not getting laid and misogyny are intertwined phenomenon.

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No, don't reply like this, please do another wall of unhinged rant please.

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No man this is serious dating advice

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