@Monke's comment on 'Foid who dedicates her identity to not doing the one thing moids like about women gets dumped. Cryposts.'

Foid who dedicates her identity to not doing the one thing moids like about women gets dumped. Cryposts.

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If you can't love me at my me, you aren't worth my time.

Exactly. Can't love me as an asexual? Then stop loving me.

less cuddles and garlic bread for him

Garlic bread unironically tastes like shit.

Weirdly, I waited like two years to tell him. Seeing the lightbulb light up in his brain and hearing him say, “That explains so much!” made me laugh a little too hard. With that being said, you are dodging a bullet with that one. They do not deserve you!

Sure. Hes out a relationship whete he wouldn't get physical affection ever, but you're the real bullet dodger

To everyone who was in this situation: You are valid, there's nothing wrong with you, you deserve to be happy and I love yall.

If theres one thing i always knew even when i was literally just getting into online shit its that aces are unironically mentally ill. Reproduction is the main goal of all lifeforms, and feeling no desire to it is a catastrophic failure of biology at best

This probably won't make you feel better but when my ex came out to me as ace she broke up with me right away. She was moving away and when I talked about going with her she told me she was just going to make the move by herself. And that was that.

I like to think that deep down, she knew that I wouldn't be happy going forward, and that even though I promised up and down I didn't need s*x to be happy with her, she just didn't believe it. If I was the man I thought I was I wouldn't have been so hurt, because she allowed us both a future where we meet someone who checks all the boxes, not most of them.

Ok, trollers remorse for a sec, this is really fricking sad.

Unless he was a peepee about it he was just being honest with you, not allot of people can be in a romantic relationship without skinship and that's ok. If he was a peepee about it tho he wasn't worth it anyway

he was a peepee about lmao. If he had been honest and respectful, the situation would've been a lot less soul crushing.

Edit: Oh boy is taking the moderate stance and opinion that at least a friendship can be salvaged here is gonna frick up my karma but here we go

Yikes, Im not usually an active participant in this community or the LGBTQ in general, but I know a few aces, and I've heard a few breakup stories.

It might sound peepeeish or victim blaming here, but really knowing the way you explained it to him would help gauge how inappropriate his reaction was, basically wether he was acting like terrible person or just acting like a person that received terrible news. Unless he did something unforgiveable it might help waiting for everything to calm down and talking to him once you've both had time to think about it, coming out is bad enough without losing someone that major in your life over it, but make it clear where you stand with him if you go though with it, and if he acts like he has an in or that he can / should try to "fix" you bounce immediatly.

It's entirely possible you made the mistake I did telling my gf I actually like dudes too, and were too frank, brief, or blunt about it and made them blame themselves or feel lied too, like the person they loved was never real. In my case though I just didn't communicate I still liked women very well and was too relaxed about the whole thing.

Again I'm going to repeat, if it turns out he wasn't just lashing out at the world and you happened to be nearby thing to project it onto, and is actually a c*nt drop his butt like a bag of bricks.

Edit 2: I would give this exact advice in reverse, I'm not siding with him, I'm just sharing my perspective and hoping that something of the relationship you once had can be salvaged and add to the pile of "people that understand and don't think this shit is fake". I'm twitching on these edits before anyone even reads this because I know it can come off as me defending the abuser but I promise you that is not my intention.

Thats a lot of words to say you don't frick

Well, he didn't deserve you if he couldn't handle your sexuality

Can someone help me, a person entirely ignorant of this personality trait / community / sexuality / lack of sexuality (I don’t even know what to call it without potentially accidentally offending) — all the comments in here about how “he doesn’t deserve you / your sexuality”? If the overwhelmingly prevailing desires of people looking for love inextricably include a healthy sexual life as part of that relationship, and an ace person enters into that relationship — and/or lets it persist without telling the sexual person, why is the sexual person who leaves that situation when the other person comes out as ace “bad” and “undeserving”? Do you see anything wrong an ace person not being honest with their partner going into a relationship and/or hiding that for a long time?

Don't get me wrong, I think everyone deserves to be in a relationship where they're happy and getting what they want out of it. At the same time, he broke up with me because he's a self proclaimed "horny bastard" with a porn addiction. So I think that's why the people commenting might seem a little harsh

he's a self proclaimed "horny bastard" with a porn addiction

I'm ace and a horny bastard who, at times, has has a porn addiction. He broke up with you because he's a horny bastard who actually wants to have mutually compatible s*x with someone he's sexually attracted to in his relationship, and as you said, that's valid. I wish him luck~

He doesn’t deserve someone as incredible as you if he’s gonna ditch you like that.

Honey, he ain't worth shit. If the only reason you stay in a relationship is the potential sexual prospects, it's not a relationship it's just slowly bribing your way into someone's pants

Now we move onto the downvoted comments( all interacted with btw)

What the frick does ace mean? Just another made up term to feel special ?

Men only think of one thing, that is s*x. Don't fall for the illusion. While this may seem bad now you'll awaken and realize that it was just holding you down

Who wants to be with someone and never have s*x? Make sure you fricking tell someone that you don’t want s*x before screwing around with their feelings? Holy shit