@HardIsLife understand it's slim pickings on here but between ted_simp's picks resulting in r*pe allegations and FrozenChosen's picks resulting in Twitter meltdowns, @HardIsLife just feel like they are scrapping the bottom of the barrels here even on rdrama standards.
I've made friends via dramasphere and @HardIsLife know many decent (looks, personality and mental health) guys. The type of men who wouldn't go on some rdrama podcast or want too share you're nudes on Twitter even if it didn't work out. We are literally operating on like 1000:1 ratio in terms of gender here. @HardIsLife honestly don't understand that how they can't just pick better.
Please someone explain.
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Not like money money, and they didnt have much when i was growing up, my dad just gradually climbed the ladder until he was head of the engineering department at his job. When i was homeless for almost a year they didn't know, i wanted to solve it myself. Then i got injured skateboarding, couldnt work anymore and needed surgery so i went to them for help and moved in with them and just stacked my disability insurance checks and got an apartment with that money once i could work again. My dad was really proud of me for sticking it out and trying to fix my life on my own. My mom cried a lot
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I'd be proud too, but you don't get any brownie points with reality for doing it the hard way, just make sure you take care of yourself first and foremost. Pride won't keep you warm at night, ya know?
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I was working and had a vehicle homeless, not tent and opiates homeless. It really wasn't so bad, would get a 2 star hotel room on my day off so i had a place to plug in my Playstation and i was able to shower at work. But then i dislocated my collar bone and basically couldnt use my right arm so yeah i had to go for them for help. I went to a festival right after it happened because i already had the tickets from like a year prior and I'd have to have my friends help me take off and put on shirts
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Are you still living the adventurous lifestyle though, or are you starting to calm down and laying roots?
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I'm gonna be 30 in six months, i need to chill out. I just go to work, cook dinner, then drink on the couch with a cat I'm friends with. He's not my cat he just likes to come in and hangout. I'll be going back to shows and throwing down in the pit again when i can financially justify it but that's as adventurous as I'm planning on getting
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What kind of pits are we talking about here? We are both getting too old to handle walls of death or Slayer shows lol
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Slayer is one of my favorite bands but they retired:/
But pretty much any kind. I like hardcore and metal and punk so it's really up to whatever the culture of the show is
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I've never been brave enough for a front row Slayer show, those pits were notorious for how brutal they got
I've gotten knocked out before during a show in middle school, and Children of Bodom was a pretty rough crowd too surprisingly. I called off pit shenanigans after my last wall of death since more people seem to be hardcore dancing then anything
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OH MY GOD I HATE WHEN IT'S NOT EVEN A HARDCORE SHOW AND MOTHERLOVERS BREAK OUT THE KARATE. Like if it's a hardcore show, yeah cool, expected. One time i was standing at the edge of the pit at a punk show and some douche tried to kick me in the stomach. I grabbed his ankle, flipped him back, and he hit his head and was unconscious for a few seconds. It was SO satisfying
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